The Women Bashing On The Board Needs To Stop

[tincanman99]

I have noticed an increase in it and I am a guy. All these guys whining about not being able to find a woman and yet are blaming women for their inability to do so.

 

Please give it a rest. Just because you cant hook up does not mean all women are bad. For those that think this kind of stuff you may want to look at yourself very closely.

 

You know the definition of insanity?

 

"Repeating the same thing over and over and expecting a different result".

 

Take being over weight as an example. If you are unhappy about being fat the the only person that can change it is YOU. The twinky people didnt make you buy the twinky and eat it. You did it. Take some accountability. You dont want to be fat - well do something about it. Look at yourself and realize that your own behavior has a HUGE part to play with it.

 

Well the same applies to dating and meeting women. If women dont find you attractive than do something about it but dont blame them.

 

That something could mean bathing, getting a good hair cut, clothes that arent filthy, ill fitting or whatever and having good conversation skills. If all of these things are dead on than I would say there is a problem.

 

But I would put money on it right now that many of the people complaining refuse to make adjustments.

 

But stop blaming women for your own failings.

 

End of rant.

[Philetus]

I agree that it has to stop. It's so bad that it's driving me away from this forum.

 

Oh, and I'm a guy, too.

 

Now, tincanman and I will be accused of being 'politically correct' or some such lame ****.

[Dexter Morgan]

methinks someone is fishing for online nookie:o j/k

[denise_xo]

It's OK, tincanman. It is our fault. It's because we all (ALL OF US) go on dates to get free meals, only rate a man on the size of his pay check (and occasionally the size of his di&k), demand demand demand and never give anything in return, cheat on our partners, get pregnant only to pin down a man and his wallet, don't know how to cook anymore, lie, don't offer enough sex, don't do any housework, withhold sex as a negotiating tool, are genetically unable to commit, and stop taking care of our appearance soon after we get married.

 

Oh, and we all HATE men.

 

Did I forget anything?

 

If I were a man in today's society, I would feel just like all the women bashers on this board. Really.

[Mad Max]

It does need to stop. It's pathetic. But, women bash men here too and no one says a word. Not only does the bashing have to stop, but so does the hypocrisy.

[Dexter Morgan]

seriously, any one of us needs to try to weed out the undesirables more. If a guy picks a woman that is full of herself or thinks she is god's gift to men...of course dating someone like that is going to be a problem. Men and women are their own worst enemies when it comes to picking a partner.

 

but then again, there are alot of people, men and women, who wonder why they can't find a good man/woman, and its usually because they go for the wrong type of person.

 

you want a badboy/badgirl...then you take what you get.

[Taramere]

I agree that it has to stop. It's so bad that it's driving me away from this forum.

 

It seems to be a permanent feature of the dating section. I hadn't looked at this section for a while, as I was focusing on the political and warmongering sections every time I came on here. Ironically, they're havens of harmony and polite discussion compared to the dating section.

[Sphere]

There are plenty of women who are guilty of this too...

[GooseChaser]

One group has to try to be bigger and not stoop to the level of bashing, even if they are being bashed. Two wrongs don't make a right. Peace!

[Pyro]

If only it could happen. We can always hope though.

 

No one is denying that women bash men on here as well, but by a large margin do women get bashed moreso on here. Again that goes to the fact that more men than women post on here because lots of men seem to think that if they expose any feelings in the outside world that they are weak.

[tincanman99]

methinks someone is fishing for online nookie:o j/k

 

There is no such thing as bad nookie

[Chrome Barracuda]

What woman bashing? There isn't enough. Comparedto other places ive seen. His site is tame.

[GooseChaser]

Whether there is too much or not enough, we should try to have a friendly community that doesn't judge too quickly, while still allowing for respectful debate and discussion.

[Pyro]

Whether there is too much or not enough, we should try to have a friendly community that doesn't judge too quickly, while still allowing for respectful debate and discussion.

 

I've been here for a long time now and it has always been the same.

 

I wish for the same as you but for some people on here generalizing and bashing an entire gender is easier for them to do, rather than taking the time to figure out the real issue(s) at hand.

[Taramere]

What woman bashing? There isn't enough. Comparedto other places ive seen. His site is tame.

 

Do you think there's enough bashing of black people on this site, or does there need to be a bit more of it? What about Asians? Do they get their fair share of stick....or are they being let off too lightly? Any other groups that you feel need to be disparaged with a bit more vigour here?

[donnamaybe]

It does need to stop. It's pathetic. But, women bash men here too and no one says a word. Not only does the bashing have to stop, but so does the hypocrisy.

The only times that I have started a man bashing thread, it was done tongue in cheek and TOTALLY mirrored the opening post of the related woman bashing thread that came first.

[donnamaybe]

Do you think there's enough bashing of black people on this site, or does there need to be a bit more of it? What about Asians? Do they get their fair share of stick....or are they being let off too lightly? Any other groups that you feel need to be disparaged with a bit more vigour here?

No kidding!

[Knittress]

By "needs to stop", do you mean:

1) "For the love of god, please shut up. Please?"

or

2) People shouldn't be allowed to express ignorant ideas, or vent toxic feelings in public.

 

Cause I agree with you on 1, but not 2.

[sanskrit]

Where's all this bashing? I only see one thread by a guy who is proud of his new foreign GF that is remotely critical of women. Nothing else sticks out.

[WalkingtheAbyss]

People have bad experiences and vent off heir anger, maybe a little much at times but hey, that's life. At the end of the day this is forum and as such many things can be missunderstood due to the way people type.

 

Some of the blatant bashing also just mirrors people immaturity to such subjects at times. Again, just ignore it and treat it for what its worth.

 

We all have our opinions, have freedom of speech to blame for having to endure others but we do have one option available that can not be denied. We have the option to not log in or read certain threads.

[collegeguy_24]

Where's all this bashing? I only see one thread by a guy who is proud of his new foreign GF that is remotely critical of women. Nothing else sticks out.

 

Agreed, provide links for evidence, for both sides of the argument, or GTFO.

[donnamaybe]

Where's all this bashing? I only see one thread by a guy who is proud of his new foreign GF that is remotely critical of women. Nothing else sticks out.

There have been a HUGE amount of them. You just haven't been around long enough.

[a_woman]

who cares what a bunch of no-hopers think or say? Why even stoop to their level by discussing it? I don't talk to weirdos like that in real life and ignore them here too.

[Pyro]

Where's all this bashing? I only see one thread by a guy who is proud of his new foreign GF that is remotely critical of women. Nothing else sticks out.

 

Just about any thread ever started by Woggle.

 

Most of the other bitter guys have been banned from here due to their hateful nature.

[Knittress]

Most of the other bitter guys have been banned from here due to their hateful nature.

 

It's sad too, because a few of them seem like reasonably nice intelligent people if they would just pull their heads out of their butts. Sometimes I want to give them hugs, but then they turn all snitty. This probably happens all the time in their real lives as well. Oh well. Avoid!