Art_Critic Posted September 22, 2010 Posted September 22, 2010 I always thought it had more to do with sperm level rather than just sex.. You can have sex once and she hasn't formed that emotional bond.. but keep having sex with her and raising her sperm level and bam..! Stop having sex with her and her sperm level goes down.. emotional bond gone
somedude81 Posted September 22, 2010 Posted September 22, 2010 That's great and all but... How do you get into her pants in the first place?!?!?1 I couldn't care less about getting girls to fall in love with me, I'm just tired of being sexless.
gypsy_nicky Posted September 22, 2010 Posted September 22, 2010 (edited) this is just an observation after I began dating again, in May; and I'm suggesting this with all due respect: the key to a woman's heart seems to be just beyond her panties.* ...sure you can setup an emotional connection in a pretty strong way w/o sex; been there, done that. However, at least from my limited experience, a kind of blind devotion/emotional infatuation in women seems to follow getting into (and rocking) a girl's panties.* agree/disagree?? agree, from experience too. I also don't believe in that bad sex thingie women put out. Bad sex= not getting enough of it which is a blow to woman's esteem. That's why when women engage in hook-ups or casual sex they're usually the ones that fall emotionally first-start getting clingy with the dude. Frequently calling, texting etc etc. Edited September 22, 2010 by gypsy_nicky
Ruby Slippers Posted September 22, 2010 Posted September 22, 2010 Well, great sex is very important to me. Nothing will grab and hold my attention with a man like amazing sex. But just great sex is not enough to make me love him and want to make a commitment to him. For that, we need great sex, an affectionate bond, a strong intellectual connection, and loving mutual support.
that girl Posted September 22, 2010 Posted September 22, 2010 What guys don't seem to understand is that often times a woman sleeps with a man because she already feels an intense connection to him. Sure sometimes a woman just wants to have sex or it is part of the making up her mind process, but a lot of the time it is because she already really likes him. I have two female friends recently who broke up with new guys because the sex was bad the first time,they didnt evne give the guy another shot It is sex, not little league, you're not entitled to another shot. They could have been selfish or really creepy in bed.
tami-chan Posted September 22, 2010 Posted September 22, 2010 this is just an observation after I began dating again, in May; and I'm suggesting this with all due respect: the key to a woman's heart seems to be just beyond her panties.* ...sure you can setup an emotional connection in a pretty strong way w/o sex; been there, done that. However, at least from my limited experience, a kind of blind devotion/emotional infatuation in women seems to follow getting into (and rocking) a girl's panties.* agree/disagree?? I absolutely disagree!!!! My current SO and I had an "emotional relationship" for 2 years before we ever got physical....
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