Angel1111 Posted September 19, 2010 Posted September 19, 2010 Well yes, englisih is her second language. Oh, I didn't realize that. That explains a lot in terms of why we never understand anything she says.
Author p0w3r Posted September 19, 2010 Author Posted September 19, 2010 Oh, I didn't realize that. That explains a lot in terms of why we never understand anything she says. ok. anyways, I understand what she says. I can listen to her language but cannot read or write. but since she wrote this online it had to be written and so she wrote it in english. but can we stop talking about the grammar/spelling mistakes she making? can we just talk about the content? at the end of the day, the only purpose of grammar etc only serves to communicate the content. and I think most people here can gather the content despite those grammar errors.
loverofloveandstuff Posted September 19, 2010 Posted September 19, 2010 Well yes, englisih is her second language. Ahh, well that makes a bit more sense (not referring to the letter, because that still makes sense to me. I like the 'half human half ghost' thing though, very interesting.) Yeah, she's obviously trying to win the sympathy vote. She likes the attention she's getting from everybody, it's comforting for her to know that she has people supporting her. I know it's hard not to overanalyse, (I always do) but there really isn't any good that come out of it.The quicker you cut all contact with her, the quicker you'll be able to get over her and forget the girl.
Author p0w3r Posted September 19, 2010 Author Posted September 19, 2010 OMG, I just now realized this was you pOw3r! What is it with this girl? She never makes a lick of sense when she writes. I hope she's not pursuing a degree in English Lit or anything. haha. The thing is, you don't really know for a fact that she cheated on you. The real issue here was her dumb behavior - causing you to question her actions - and her blatant disrespect for you. I repeat what I said before, if you go back to her, it'll be the same stuff, different day. Ok. So she would not change her behavior if I went back to her? Oh please just ignore the english errors. thats only just because english is her second language. lets focus on the content. Yes it is the dumb behavior that ruined the relationship. But can we jjust please analyse the content?
loverofloveandstuff Posted September 19, 2010 Posted September 19, 2010 As for the content. I'm not sure what the purpose of the letter was (other than to gain sympathy), but it shouldn't really matter. Ultimately, you guys aren't in a relationship anymore and you will never (hopefully) go back there again so everything she is crapping on about is irrelevant.
Angel1111 Posted September 19, 2010 Posted September 19, 2010 ok. anyways, I understand what she says. I can listen to her language but cannot read or write. but since she wrote this online it had to be written and so she wrote it in english. but can we stop talking about the grammar/spelling mistakes she making? can we just talk about the content? at the end of the day, the only purpose of grammar etc only serves to communicate the content. and I think most people here can gather the content despite those grammar errors. Yea, we can but the language thing makes a big difference because, seriously, I thought she was deranged or on drugs or something. The other stuff - you can dissect it to pieces. But I hope you don't respond to it. I liked the suggestion about sending her a message and then de-friending her. The bottom line is that she probably is hurt by the break-up but that doesn't matter because she's too freakin' immature to be in a relationship. She's suddenly surprised that you dumped her for treating you with such disrespect? The only kind of person who would be surprised by this is a person who thinks it's ok to act like this. This does not a great relationship make. So, yea, have a party reading about her pity party. Are you really surprised by it? Does it really change anything?
Author p0w3r Posted September 19, 2010 Author Posted September 19, 2010 Ahh, well that makes a bit more sense (not referring to the letter, because that still makes sense to me. I like the 'half human half ghost' thing though, very interesting.) Yeah, she's obviously trying to win the sympathy vote. She likes the attention she's getting from everybody, it's comforting for her to know that she has people supporting her. I know it's hard not to overanalyse, (I always do) but there really isn't any good that come out of it.The quicker you cut all contact with her, the quicker you'll be able to get over her and forget the girl. Yes thank you for completely ignoring the english errors. its not because she is dumb, in fact she is very smart as a high achiever at school, but english is her second language. She is very capable academically. so lets PLEASE focus on the content only and CONTENT ONLY. I gather you get the content she is trying to communicate? How is half human half ghost thing interesting? in what way? in the style of writing way or the way shes been going through that kind of way? just to clarify, this was a private note only visible by me. BUt I still dont understand what she is trying to tell me and make me feel through this note. everyones just been saying shes a psychopath with no real information given.
Author p0w3r Posted September 19, 2010 Author Posted September 19, 2010 can i say something, please disregard the english errors. She is very smart but english is her second language. She is not on drugs etc. Please do not judge her and say she is crazy just because the english seems incoherent. She is not incoherent. Can we pretend the english was absolutely perfect and then understand the content she is trying to say and focus on the content? Cheers
leftfordead2 Posted September 19, 2010 Posted September 19, 2010 The content does not matter anymore at this point in time because you already broke up with her. Whatever she writes is none of your business, unless of course, she sends an email to you directly or go look for you. This is just a coping mechanism for her. Why should you bother about what she writes since you guys have broken up? It's not like she's kneeling down in front of you and begging you to take her back.
Author p0w3r Posted September 20, 2010 Author Posted September 20, 2010 The content does not matter anymore at this point in time because you already broke up with her. Whatever she writes is none of your business, unless of course, she sends an email to you directly or go look for you. This is just a coping mechanism for her. Why should you bother about what she writes since you guys have broken up? It's not like she's kneeling down in front of you and begging you to take her back. I just want to know how she felt about me and the relationship. But I have a feeling she is trying to manipulate with my mind. She is a drama queen and has been emo and posting messages all over facebook, I guess in a hardcore attempt to gain sympathy and attention. But is she trying to screw with my mind here? Is she trying to make me feel guilty? Is she trying to make me feel depressed?
Author p0w3r Posted September 21, 2010 Author Posted September 21, 2010 You lost a prized posession, you didn't communicate well, you occassionally left her hanging. She is still a crazy drama queen, but she has reasonable ammo aganist you. that girl: why do you think she let me off easy again? do you mind explaining in detail? Thanks. I don't think how the "losing a prized possession" should have been taken into consideration as she hasn't found out I lost that item yet. (so she could easily and will most likely be different when she finds out).
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