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Basically.

 

I'm a man, we're more visual. Women aren't as picky physically because they're also very attracted to money, power, and fame. Hence, you see fat ugly men with younger more attractive women. How often do you see a good looking man with a fat ugly woman? Not often.

 

LOL..!!!!

 

Those do not apply to you because you are average. Rich, powerful, ugly men are not average..Anyhow, like I said before, adhere to your standards and next her! What's the problem?

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She is not "gorgeous" fat is apart of the overall appereance regardless of the face

 

ahm...hello????? the OP himself said she has a GORGEOUS face but overweight! Those are the "facts' he gave us. APART?????

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Basically.

 

I'm a man, we're more visual. Women aren't as picky physically because they're also very attracted to money, power, and fame. Hence, you see fat ugly men with younger more attractive women. How often do you see a good looking man with a fat ugly woman? Not often.

 

lol where does this women dont care about looks thing come from?

 

Companies make commercials basically off of women being visual creatures who like pretty things..

 

Im an unattractive dude ive yet to have a women overlook that and date me for my personality

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It's not often that as people age, they get thinner.

 

Actually, I don't think that's true.

 

I think a lot of people start to get really into health/ fitness as they enter adulthood, an obsession that only grows over time.

 

I have seen many examples in my real life of people currently in their 40's - 60's who are easily in the best shape of their life.

 

That said, for every person who eats right and works out, there are probably 10 who have never tried either. They're not getting thinner with age...

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It looks like it hapens allot.

 

Theyres plenty of blah looking couples out there that im sure realize theyre not with a great lookign person but realized that couldnt do much better and end up falling in love

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I have never been 100% physically attracted to every aspect of a man I have dated. If the woman being a bit heavy is too much for you...move on. I think you already know what you want to do...just do it.

 

I have dated a short man due to his incredible face. Damn it...that face and hair!! I, personally, am more interested in a man's face than his body.

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I have never been 100% physically attracted to every aspect of a man I have dated. If the woman being a bit heavy is too much for you...move on. I think you already know what you want to do...just do it.

 

I have dated a short man due to his incredible face. Damn it...that face and hair!! I, personally, am more interested in a man's face than his body.

 

Yeah but the weight problem can be changed, unlike height, facial features, etc.

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I dunno. I'm in the same boat as you, but it's his haircut I'm not digging. I'm going to try to overlook it and see.

 

LOL! you women are weird when it comes to these things. One of the women i'm dateing bought me jeans that are honestly tighter than what i'm used to wearing. Not too tight, but snug.

I could feel them hugging my package which is something i'm just not used to.

 

I wore them & she kept checking me out & touching me. Total night & day. Obviously Pants are her thing when it comes to guys & attraction.

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:laugh: Yeah, we're weird!

 

Sorry about the tight pants thing. I'm with you on that. Luckily for me, the initial pic he'd sent me was older and he's since grown his hair out some and it is swoon-worthy.

 

As for a person's haircut- It's not about being trendy or anything. Generally your hair frames and highlights: your face, personality & to a lesser extent your entire body. I'd say a haircut is pretty important.

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:laugh: Yeah, we're weird!

 

Sorry about the tight pants thing. I'm with you on that. Luckily for me, the initial pic he'd sent me was older and he's since grown his hair out some and it is swoon-worthy.

 

As for a person's haircut- It's not about being trendy or anything. Generally your hair frames and highlights: your face, personality & to a lesser extent your entire body. I'd say a haircut is pretty important.

 

I also wish her hair was longer :laugh:. Right now its about shoulder length. Sounds like a classic fixer-upper.

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I wouldn't go on......never works on when your not attracted to them

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