Getting this thing called LIFE handled.

[MrNate]

Alright guys, this is continuing off of my previous thread: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t242286/

 

First, I wanted to say thank you for all the well thought out posts. They have all proven to be helpful and give me something to think about. Especially USMC, and Gorilla theater, who questioned if it was fear or lack of motivation. I've come to the conclusion it was a simple lack of motivation.

 

After giving it a couple weeks of deep thought, it dawned on me last night that I had a lack of motivation towards LIFE in general. I felt like I spent a lot of time moping over the fact that I didn't have as much female interaction that I'd like to have on a daily basis- I forgot where I was going in life. Maybe I got caught up in the belief that one is required for the other.

 

So I guess what I'm wondering is..would I be right in assuming that if If spent more time searching for my purpose, that most of these other dilemmas will begin to solve themselves (and make me even more of a catch then I already am)? Also what are some steps that I can take to begin to build my life the way I WANT it be molded:

 

-More friends

-More experiences

-More memories

-More..lovey dovey perhaps?

 

After finally clearing the air in my mind last night, I really feel rejuvenated to get all this under control. I'm ready to become an even better person.

 

 

 

Thanks in advance for the good advice.

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[CLC2008]

I think you've come a long way in a short period of time Mr. Nate, honestly.

 

It def shows through in your mannerisms on here and you've become much more reflective, introspective and seemingly confident in yourself.

 

I sincerely give you props for that.

[MrNate]

I think you've come a long way in a short period of time Mr. Nate, honestly.

 

It def shows through in your mannerisms on here and you've become much more reflective, introspective and seemingly confident in yourself.

 

I sincerely give you props for that.

 

Why, thanks CLC. I'm trying, haha. Right now, I just feel like I'm not sure what the next steps should be.

[CLC2008]

Why, thanks CLC. I'm trying, haha. Right now, I just feel like I'm not sure what the next steps should be.

 

Well, why not think of a few things you'd like to do, and then do them?

 

I can't tell you how many classes I've taken, things I've wanted to learn/do outside of my job (i.e. dance classes, computer courses, tai chi). I was on a bowling league for a few years. Just find some things you enjoy doing.