USMCHokie Posted September 16, 2010 Posted September 16, 2010 I will put money on that his family is wrapped super tight. I have yet to encounter an Indian family that isnt. They totally and completely control their kids. Thats how it is. First time he comes how with a girl that isnt Indian they will go bananas. Ask me how I know . Let me guess...you were the dude the Indian girl brought home...and her family went bananas... But I have a feeling you're right...his family may be blowing smoke up his ass to make him think it's ok to date outside the race...but when it comes down to the line, they will wig out when he comes home saying he wants to marry non-Indian girl... And then it'll be up to him to tell them to go shove it up their arse...
Author Labster12 Posted September 16, 2010 Author Posted September 16, 2010 All of this began in high school when people started telling me about Indians getting arranged marriages. Thing is I did not even know it existed because I was mainly around Whites and Blacks so I was more into the American culture. As for my parents, they are okay with me dating interracial and marrying interracial, today my mom met my girlfriend (yea, I am in another relationship now) and it went well. As for my Indian guy questions, here are the motivations, of course the okcupid chart was one but here are others http://www.topix.com/forum/business/online-dating/TFDQ1P6LUIH28LM9F Also on yahoo answers there was like so much crap I read about girls not wanting Indian men due to "hygiene" issues and curry smells. Eitherways, I have humiliated myself by approaching on this topic over and over again. It is a curiosity of mines which is now fulfilled, if anyone knows a mod they message, may they please tell him/her to shut down this thread because I have other (non-racial) things to talk about.
Feelin Frisky Posted September 16, 2010 Posted September 16, 2010 ... if anyone knows a mod they message, may they please tell him/her to shut down this thread because I have other (non-racial) things to talk about. Now why do I doubt that? You'll still be Indian next week.
TaraMaiden Posted September 17, 2010 Posted September 17, 2010 Now there, you see? I had you all wrong. Here was I thinking Sitting Bull, the feather head-dress, porcupine quills and the reservation with a few buffalo, a couple of wolves and a huge bald eagle just to keep it picturesque. I didn't realise you meant THAT Indian.... I'm hugely disappointed. But you look cute, if I say so myself. And living in the UK, I see a lot of Indian guys.... All this drawing attention to your race and colour is just what's known in psychology circles, as Reverse Ego..... The only reason it makes a difference is because you make it MAKE a difference. You're a good-looking guy. But the more of a hindrance you believe your race to be, the more it is one.
Author Labster12 Posted September 17, 2010 Author Posted September 17, 2010 Now why do I doubt that? You'll still be Indian next week. just for you ;D
Author Labster12 Posted September 24, 2010 Author Posted September 24, 2010 Thanks SG Unfortunately, it looks like the OP has some issues with his identity/himself, he has posted this same thread several times :/ I never picked up on this post. This is way beyond the point now since I am dating a Latina but I said various number of times, Indian guy - White girl is super common. If an Indian guy lives in the US, he is going to date a White girl and chances are he will marry one. Sendhil Ramamurthy and Sanjay Gupta are main examples. You married an Indian guy, bravo, but back then I was asking if a Latina would date an Indian guy and some people decide not to pick up on that. Some go on menopause (USMChokie for example) and let their estrogen show. All I asked is about Indian guys and Latinas, and I know they exist now but back then people were acting like complete idiots. First of all by not letting me have my preference and telling me that I should date who they want me to date and that I shouldn't be allowed to have an attraction to Latinas. I had my reason, I mean no one has heard of Indian guy - Latina couple before and even now I get so many questions from it from my friends. I asked if it happens and if me being Indian would stop me, it didn't but people were getting so pissed off over nothing. See you guys have a privilege. This isn't Black and White or whatever but more so small city and big city. If you have met a total of 7 Latinas your whole life and 8 Asian women (including your mom if you count Indian as Asian) then you will start to wonder how those women are different. Heck, if anything I have read and heard that Latinas and Asian women go for White men if they don't go for their own men. I also heard that Latina - Indian guy does not exist a lot on the internet so that sorta discouraged me in a way and I came on here for tips. Some of you helped me but man some of you were complete pricks, I have no problems, I am dating the girl I want, and I am not going to sell out. I won't date a White European or White American girl period because I have that right, there, crucify me if you like.
Star Gazer Posted September 24, 2010 Posted September 24, 2010 Some go on menopause (USMChokie for example) and let their estrogen show. Huh????????
Author Labster12 Posted September 24, 2010 Author Posted September 24, 2010 Huh???????? I had to point it out, the guy was flaming me all along every chance he got. I noticed it a lot but decided not to say too much about it, I mean I am sure he knows what he was doing.
Feelin Frisky Posted September 24, 2010 Posted September 24, 2010 ...Just pretend you're white...that's what I do... Uh, there is no such thing as white. It's a fake construct. I'm Irish. An Italian is not likely to look like me or have the same background. Just because neither of us blindfolds our eyes with dental floss like your good self () does not mean we're two units of whiteness. No caucasion person aspires to be merely "white"--some place great emphasis on living ethnic traditions but those who don't are just people. We've learned the rules of speaking English--not white. It kinda sucks that being partucularly good at it is judged being "white" or "more white" by others who are particularly inept or unwilling to observe the pronunciation rules and grammar of the language. When all try to observe the structure and rules of our language we become united as an English speaking culture which has lost other origins and artifical beligerances. No one is trying to be white or the most white. We're just people trying to be optimally articulate within our language.
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