Green Posted September 8, 2010 Posted September 8, 2010 Wait, what? Ask them this early on? Or once you guys are, you know, actually doing sexual things? I think straight-up asking a girl to do that will probably get any guy slapped. Aside from that, I agree with everything else. Ask on date 2 or 3. My point is this guy mentioned wanting a BJ but I doubt he has ever asked for one. He just expects sht to be given to him with out TRYING. It could happen on date one. The truth is first dates have often been quite pasionate for me and a bj woudn't be out of the question.
somedude81 Posted September 8, 2010 Posted September 8, 2010 The advice here is all over the place. The most common piece, "just don't care" is garbage. When you want something that badly it's impossible not to care. Next, at 5'2 you are short. Girls may be auto-rejecting you just based on your height. Look online and buy some platform shoes. You need to cancel out the things that hurt you. How often do you work out? Do you have a fit, muscular body? Do you dress cool, or nice? You don't need to wear Ed Hardy to look good. If you have the money, try to look a little nicer than everybody else. Also you need to just keep asking girls out.
kiss_andmakeup Posted September 8, 2010 Posted September 8, 2010 5'2 is rough, and girls can be cruel when it comes to height. I feel for you. I do agree with the poster above: make everything else about your appearance spotless. Work out and build a muscular body, dress nice. Just don't go too far or it will look like you're trying too hard or overcompensating for your height.
Green Posted September 8, 2010 Posted September 8, 2010 5'2 is rough, and girls can be cruel when it comes to height. I feel for you. I do agree with the poster above: make everything else about your appearance spotless. Work out and build a muscular body, dress nice. Just don't go too far or it will look like you're trying too hard or overcompensating for your height. If I were a 5'2 fat balding guy I could still get women. The trick is not caring. when you ask a girl out you have to just enjoy the chase, enjoy trying to kiss, touch ect. and stop CARING so much. Its really insecure to fear rejections so much so face your fears and go for it. ALSO DO NOT SWITCH schools and add extra time and extra money to your education. Moving foward will solve ur problems not running away from them
Mad Max Posted September 8, 2010 Posted September 8, 2010 LOL @ asking for a BJ on the first date. General rule of thought for you gentlemen: Never have sex with a woman until she's been tested for STDs. You don't know where she's been.
Cracker Jack Posted September 8, 2010 Posted September 8, 2010 If I were a 5'2 fat balding guy I could still get women. The trick is not caring. when you ask a girl out you have to just enjoy the chase, enjoy trying to kiss, touch ect. and stop CARING so much. Its really insecure to fear rejections so much so face your fears and go for it. Yeah, but like somedude mentioned: It's kinda hard not to care when you want a woman badly. And if you add on the fact of likely never having experience with a woman, it makes it virtually impossible to not care. But yeah, being 5'2" is tough. I feel for you, Mikki.
Green Posted September 8, 2010 Posted September 8, 2010 LOL @ asking for a BJ on the first date. General rule of thought for you gentlemen: Never have sex with a woman until she's been tested for STDs. You don't know where she's been. I think this is a good idea but truth be told I never got tested for sti's until after I was with a girl already, never before. Simply because its really a mood breaker to request a girl gets tested for sti's.
Mad Max Posted September 8, 2010 Posted September 8, 2010 I think this is a good idea but truth be told I never got tested for sti's until after I was with a girl already, never before. Simply because its really a mood breaker to request a girl gets tested for sti's. Unless she thinks or knows she has something, she won't hesitate to get tested. Condoms mean sh*t when it comes to herpes and HPV. I'd hate for you to sleep with someone and end up with an incurable STD because you didn't have her tested.
tman666 Posted September 8, 2010 Posted September 8, 2010 I think this is a good idea but truth be told I never got tested for sti's until after I was with a girl already, never before. Simply because its really a mood breaker to request a girl gets tested for sti's. The herp: permanent mood killer.
GooseChaser Posted September 8, 2010 Posted September 8, 2010 The herp: permanent mood killer. Yes. Truth. Good point there!
Green Posted September 8, 2010 Posted September 8, 2010 Unless she thinks or knows she has something, she won't hesitate to get tested. Condoms mean sh*t when it comes to herpes and HPV. I'd hate for you to sleep with someone and end up with an incurable STD because you didn't have her tested. True that considerin you can get infected on the parts of your shaft, balls and inner thigh that ain proteted. I don't think they can test for HPV that good but I heard Herpes has an accurate blood test. Well right now I'm in a committed relationship of almost two years and she had been tested and we both go to the doctor regularly. So I'm pretty sure unless she lied to me or it didn't show up she is clean. And as ar as I know I'm clean although I never asked specificly for any tests other then my ordinary blood. The herp: permanent mood killer. true that. but unless you've only been with 0-1 girls you've taken the risk as well
kblitz Posted September 9, 2010 Posted September 9, 2010 @Mikki Mars I used to be the skinny, short kid all throughout HS with absolutely no chance with woman. Didn't even get to go to prom. However, one day, the clouds parted and the sky opened up as the gods descended down from the sky with a 50 lb barbell and a richard simmons video in hand. Astounded, I worked that **** every off chance I got. Hell probably got buff even handling all those 3000 page chemistry books. Now I'm chiseled as Adonis even with my short stature boosting my chances with woman at least 40%, leaving the other 60% to social skills, random chance, etc. Moral of story? Workout + take care of yourself (Clean appearance) + stop with that defeatist attitude = less rejection. Seriously, when you look this good, you don't even need to make a joke to get women to laugh.
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