Author fmfan08 Posted September 2, 2010 Author Posted September 2, 2010 Wholly drama batman. Listen to your self. Get off the facebook. She's attention whoreing you big time. If you respond after she posted that she'll know she has you hook, line, & sinker. By the balls. Don't respond. The phone works BOTH WAYS. If she had something to say to you she would contact you. Believe me I HAVEN'T. I know if i do, she'll know to do this in the future if I don't speak to her. I've been talking to another girl anyway at the moment, i'm not waiting around for this other girl. I do have feelings for her but i'm going to ask her straight what she wants, if not then things get forgot and I move on. Talking to this other girl i've realised not all girls are the same and that I shouldn't be bothered at all about this.
Author fmfan08 Posted September 2, 2010 Author Posted September 2, 2010 fmfan, Check it out--what do YOU want out of a relationship with a woman, be it this one, or any other woman? Decide what YOU want, and then go directly for what YOU want. Do YOU want to have a "relationship" which consists of no actual contact but a bunch of silly facebooking nonsense? If so, great--you've got it! Don't change a thing. However, if you want a real live warm breathing woman in your arms then you need to look for someone else, because this girl just ain't cutting the mustard. Yeah, she hasn't had many experiences with lads before. She's one of those girls that just seem to prefer being with friends and that. I know she does have feelings but I didn't help creating an argument every moment and i'm not surprised why she's confused and things got like this. We used to see each other in person, every sign to say a girl was interested was actually there! we just use facebook messaging as an alternative to texting as i ditched my phone (habit of spending way too much on it). But she has been annoyed and frustrated lately, she wrote before 'erghh. really annoyed' or something, i'll get things sorted at the weekend as we both seem to have busy weeks so far. I don't know how old either you or phileas are but social networking does play a big part in my generation at the moment, it's something that my generation has been brought up with and i've met girls through the likes of facebook before, as well as new mates, etc. I don't rely on this obviously, I go out clubbing and talk to girls too!
Author fmfan08 Posted September 7, 2010 Author Posted September 7, 2010 Okay I sent her a message on saturday leaving her a week and a bit to think, saying what I really felt for her and gave it to her straight, basically asking for a straight answer. She sent me quite a long message saying she's actually realised that it's me she wants but had a feeling that i might have moved on or something and said she was well upset. She said that she's had a good think about her feelings and stuff + she's seen how upset she'd feel if i had moved on because she really really likes me. hopes i ain't just saying what i say to her for no reason and that its really what i feel and wants me to be completely honest with her. also said she's reaaaallyyy missed talking to me + started writing a few inbox's but wasn't sure if i wanted her speaking to me. finally, she said that her not speaking to me has just made her feelings stronger for me. I was a bit unsure myself to believe this and was hoping I didn't force her to feel like this, that she is the girl I want and that. She replied this morning that she decided the decision herself and still thinks I can do better but doesn't want me to.. that she does really really like me and hopes nothing will change that. Then she said she really does want us to work and give a proper go of things.
phineas Posted September 7, 2010 Posted September 7, 2010 Let her actions speak for her from now on. If her actions don't match her words you know what to do.
Author fmfan08 Posted September 8, 2010 Author Posted September 8, 2010 Let her actions speak for her from now on. If her actions don't match her words you know what to do. I'll take this into account, her actions lately seem like it would lead to her saying this but wasn't sure. I've asked if she's free the weekend after this, as i'm busy this weekend and her mum doesn't let her out much during the week either, I can work around that if she lets me.
yamanbt Posted September 8, 2010 Posted September 8, 2010 OP, please listen to Sabali and Phineas. They are telling you the straight up truth. I wish I had someone to break it down for me like that at your age.
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