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Lishy Established Member

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Hiya

I keep getting these emails asking me if I want to knpw the secrets of how to make a man fall in love with you ... I have a feeling it is all crappolla anyway but have any of you bough them? I would love to know what they are saying but cannot buy them

 

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Hiya

I keep getting these emails asking me if I want to knpw the secrets of how to make a man fall in love with you ... I have a feeling it is all crappolla anyway but have any of you bough them? I would love to know what they are saying but cannot buy them

 

Thanks

 

Catch Him and Keep Him, right? I'll send it to you. It's pretty decent. PM me with your email addy.

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To heck with those books, here's what you do:

 

To get an Alpha male:

1. Be hot

2. Tell him you want to be FWB, no attachments to start off with

3. You got an alpha male easy as pie

 

 

To get a Beta male

 

1. Be hot, cute, or just not overweight

2. Tell him you don't like alpha males

3. Don't cheat on him

4. Treat him decent

5. You've got a beta male

 

 

To get the guys in between is trickier, but follows the same principles.

Fay Established Member

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To heck with those books, here's what you do:

 

To get an Alpha male:

1. Be hot

2. Tell him you want to be FWB, no attachments to start off with

3. You got an alpha male easy as pie

 

And this is why you don't ask a fish for advice on how to catch it.

 

Start off FWB and you'll always be FWB. Who wants to buy the cow when you can have the milk for free?

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And this is why you don't ask a fish for advice on how to catch it.

 

Start off FWB and you'll always be FWB. Who wants to buy the cow when you can have the milk for free?

 

The thought process I described happens all the time, even on this board. Girls think that they can FWB an alpha male and it will somehow work, it repulses me.

 

If you couldn't tell, I was taking a shot at misconceptions girls have about them. What I said about the Beta's and other males is true though.

 

When a girl sleeps with a guy on the first date, she is basically doing a FWB (he'll like me more if I have sex with him). How can you be in a serious relationship with someone you just met? First date sex = FWB and it's toxic to a girl who wants to find true love.

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The thought process I described happens all the time, even on this board. Girls think that they can FWB an alpha male and it will somehow work, it repulses me.

 

If you couldn't tell, I was taking a shot at misconceptions girls have about them. What I said about the Beta's and other males is true though.

 

When a girl sleeps with a guy on the first date, she is basically doing a FWB (he'll like me more if I have sex with him). How can you be in a serious relationship with someone you just met? First date sex = FWB and it's toxic to a girl who wants to find true love.

 

True enough. Funny thing is that's exactly what that book I mentioned says. There's this rumor going around that it was written by David DeAngelo under a pseudonym, which has his followers in a bit of an uproar, calling him a Judas - because the advice he gives in the book is those guys' self-admitted kryptonite, LOL...

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I don't think any book can tell you how to make a person fall in love with you. Just be yourself as this is what you will end up being in the end anyway. They either want you or they don't.

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Lishy Established Member

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I have PMd you Fay, thanks for that

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There've been studies out that show men fall in love quite easily. The problem is when men are kicked to the curb every few months for frivolous reasons, they start putting an iron shield around their hearts. They turn in to players because it's easier that way than to deal with another cruel breakup.

K'aycie Established Member

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No, but I have read Mars and Venus on A Date.

 

I do hate the spam though, I get a ton for viagra (hello, I am a female, ? :confused:)

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No, but I have read Mars and Venus on A Date.

 

I do hate the spam though, I get a ton for viagra (hello, I am a female, ? :confused:)

 

I got one asking if I would like larger breasts.

K'aycie Established Member

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I got one asking if I would like larger breasts.

 

LOL, oh wow. Well I hope you didn't take them.

 

I do wonder, what would happen if I took the viagra...would I grow a mustache or something?

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And this is why you don't ask a fish for advice on how to catch it.

 

Start off FWB and you'll always be FWB. Who wants to buy the cow when you can have the milk for free?

 

Not always true. I was FWB with a guy and I wanted to keep it that way as I loved being single, then he started wanting more and I had to end it. :( But I think if you go into a FWB situation where your intent is to eventually be more with a guy he'll see straight through that and the girl won't ever get what she really wants. So say what you mean, and mean what you say.

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Lishy Established Member

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C'mon Fay send me it!;);)

Fay Established Member

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C'mon Fay send me it!;);)

 

Sent. :bunny:

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I hate these books, regardless of which gender it's for. The authors are trying to make money and they make money by feeding people's insecurities.

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And this is why you don't ask a fish for advice on how to catch it.

 

Start off FWB and you'll always be FWB. Who wants to buy the cow when you can have the milk for free?

 

If you want steak? Carapaccio? :love:

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To heck with those books, here's what you do:

 

To get an Alpha male:

1. Be hot

2. Tell him you want to be FWB, no attachments to start off with

3. You got an alpha male easy as pie

 

 

To get a Beta male

 

1. Be hot, cute, or just not overweight

2. Tell him you don't like alpha males

3. Don't cheat on him

4. Treat him decent

5. You've got a beta male

 

 

To get the guys in between is trickier, but follows the same principles.

 

The alphamale part is 100% accurate. Actually I'm very impressed with how good you summarized the two.

 

You need to get into a fwb situation with alphamales. They aren't going to put up with you trying to just get what you want (relationship-type activities) without getting what they are partially in it for... sex. You can hate all you want, but if you withhold sex for long periods of time don't be surprised when alpha guys leave you for a girl willing to give them everything.

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Hiya

I keep getting these emails asking me if I want to knpw the secrets of how to make a man fall in love with you ... I have a feeling it is all crappolla anyway but have any of you bough them? I would love to know what they are saying but cannot buy them

 

Thanks

 

They say do this, be that. Here's why and this is how. Do it this way and this will become true, do it that way and if that happened here's why. Bunch of crap really! :love::love::love:

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From what I have read/heard the woman books are SIGNIFICANTLY worse than the guy books. Like really really bad.

 

"The Rules" is one of the books with the biggest following. However, I've heard some major downfalls of it. (1) It does actually employ a ton of 'gimmicks' and 'tricks' to snag guys (2) These 'tricks' actually weed out the guys you probably would like to date (the alphas) and leave you with the wussiest betas you can find (3) The 'tricks' weed out all of the players AND normal guys, so you end up going for long periods without sex (4) it attracts the wrong type of guy (as per 2).

 

This is contrary to the stuff that is written for guys, which believe it or not and contrary to every uninformed opinion you've ever read, works BETTER on quality chicks than non-quality (low self-esteem girls cannot handle any type of compliment, qualification, etc. as they do not believe these things to be true, and thus think you are "lying". HSE chicks will believe you as their inner-value is very high), and there is much much more emphasis on self-improvement than on "tricks" that are used in woman's books.

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You need to get into a fwb situation with alphamales. They aren't going to put up with you trying to just get what you want (relationship-type activities) without getting what they are partially in it for... sex. You can hate all you want, but if you withhold sex for long periods of time don't be surprised when alpha guys leave you for a girl willing to give them everything.

 

Are you saying that telling an alphamale you just want to be FWB will make him want a relationship with you? Reverse psychology?

dispatch3d Established Member

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Are you saying that telling an alphamale you just want to be FWB will make him want a relationship with you? Reverse psychology?

 

you said that not me. So no, I didn't say it. Yes, you did say it.

Philetus Established Member

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When a girl sleeps with a guy on the first date, she is basically doing a FWB (he'll like me more if I have sex with him). How can you be in a serious relationship with someone you just met? First date sex = FWB and it's toxic to a girl who wants to find true love.

 

I dislike universal statements like this. Obviously, I don't know what happens with other people but...

 

I'd describe myself as an alpha male. My gf and I slept together on our first date, there was never any implied FWB thang, and we're absolutely bat**** crazy in love with each other.

 

All the women I'd have relationships with had one thing in common - they had their **** together. They didn't NEED me to make their lives complete, they were with me because they LIKED being with me. I didn't fill a void in their life, I augmented it.

 

I dated a lot and I became incredibly selective in who I dated and had relationships with. Surprise - I had relationships with women I was attracted to, who had some quality(ies) I found compelling, but that's subjective and trying to figure out what I want (or other men want) will drive you nuts and you can't do it. Hell, I'd have trouble defining exactly what it is I like and I fall in love with different people for different reasons.

 

You can't change who you are, at least not quickly. There was nothing a woman could do outside of just being herself that could make me love her. So, having sex on a first date or waiting a month - irrelevant. Having children or not - irrelevant. Having money or not - irrelevant.

 

Be a well-rounded person who has hobbies and interests, be physically fit and learn how to be comfortable in your own skin.

 

Groucho Marx said it best. Men don't want to belong to a club that would have them as a member. If you give an alpha male an indication that you need him, he'll immediately start thinking he can do better. Being a well-rounded person who doesn't need him, makes you seem compelling and he'll revel in his good fortune at having someone like you. But, you can't pretend. You have to be it.

 

There are no quick fixes and no tricks.

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I've dated women that seemed to think because they LET me have sex with them it meant I was collared & had to be a good little boyfriend or they wouldn't put out again.

 

Guess what?

 

Those women were looking for a new boyfriend rather quickly.

That is an example on how to not make a man fall in love with you.

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This is contrary to the stuff that is written for guys, which believe it or not and contrary to every uninformed opinion you've ever read, works BETTER on quality chicks than non-quality (low self-esteem girls cannot handle any type of compliment, qualification, etc. as they do not believe these things to be true, and thus think you are "lying". HSE chicks will believe you as their inner-value is very high), and there is much much more emphasis on self-improvement than on "tricks" that are used in woman's books.

 

Yep. Anyone who thinks that the dating/pick-up books aimed towards men are all BS have never read one or tried to use anything contained in them.

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