Imajerk17 Posted August 26, 2010 Posted August 26, 2010 I agree with MadMax. That said, you gave mixed signals, and he was less than smooth. Why do you want to keep seeing him?
dispatch3d Posted August 26, 2010 Posted August 26, 2010 Don't know if you are talking to OP or to me. If to me, the above doesn't make much sense, if to OP, it doesn't make much sense either. There's a difference between "rules" and "boundaries." If someone states that they don't want any kissing or sex on the second date, that's not a rule, but a specific boundary that applies to relations with a particular person. Just because someone doesn't want to kiss or have sex on a second date doesn't mean they have hang ups. it's to opening post. It's a stupid rule/boundary. I can understand if she doesn't usually feel comfortable enough to kiss or whateve ron x date. But to say no kissing by date 2, no sex until date 5, like why are you doing this? How is this helping anything? Wtf is the point of making up these rules? can't you just not kiss a guy until date x? Takes two to tango
Author Tres Posted August 26, 2010 Author Posted August 26, 2010 He rubbed is wang on her & nearly creamed his shorts & then she went to dinner with him. How the hell can she sit accrossed from him & eat if she was that disturbed by his actions? Yeah, she likey. As for eating out, he took me to an asian restaurant. I gave him a weak hint that I did not like the place, but I agreed to go there anyway because he wanted to go there a lot. When we was there, he told me that he would order for me because he knew what was the best there. So, he ordered the same asian soup for both of us. He liked his food a lot, but I did not like mine. Partly, I was not really hungry for food after the massage and other stuff in his apartment. When he noticed that I did not want to eat my food, he told me that it was no problem. Then, he took my soup and ate it himself. He looked very comfortable while eating my food like he has done it often on dates, and I thought that it was very funny.
Jilly Bean Posted August 26, 2010 Posted August 26, 2010 why would you want to go on a 3rd date with him after that? Why would you go out to dinner with him after the couch incident?
lilbunny Posted August 26, 2010 Posted August 26, 2010 Why would you go out to dinner with him after the couch incident? A good point. I'd have been out of there. I have to say from the description you have given me I have visions much akin to an over eager dog humping your leg. If it was me, even if he was in with a shot of getting some it would have evapourated quickly after that alluring display, ewwww.
Author Tres Posted August 26, 2010 Author Posted August 26, 2010 it's to opening post. It's a stupid rule/boundary. I can understand if she doesn't usually feel comfortable enough to kiss or whateve ron x date. But to say no kissing by date 2, no sex until date 5, like why are you doing this? How is this helping anything? Wtf is the point of making up these rules? can't you just not kiss a guy until date x? Takes two to tango The point of the rules is to avoid kissing the wrong people.
dispatch3d Posted August 26, 2010 Posted August 26, 2010 The point of the rules is to avoid kissing the wrong people. So fix the root of the problem rather than making up stupid rules that don't do anything for you.
Author Tres Posted August 26, 2010 Author Posted August 26, 2010 So fix the root of the problem rather than making up stupid rules that don't do anything for you. What the root? As for me, I can not figure out before date 3 if a guy is right/or wrong for me.
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