Engadget Posted August 11, 2010 Posted August 11, 2010 Going to keep this short and simple. Girl A: Hot, 19 and into me, we'll be working together for the forseeable future. Girl B: Pretty, smart, 19 and leaving for college but going on a date with me saturday. Girl A I met first day on the job, girl B I was paired with the next day. Had lunch with girl B today since we work together, girl A gives me THE look that says "I'm jealous" and proceeds to text me about how upset she is. I like girl B, we can talk for hours with no lull and she's intelligent. Girl A is hot, very,very hot but the conversation part doesn't always go so smooth. She's shyer than girl B as well. It would be a no brainer and I'd go for girl B, but she's leaving for college about 2 hours from me. Advice? I still need to work with A when B leaves in a couple weeks, wish B was staying.
USMCHokie Posted August 11, 2010 Posted August 11, 2010 I would let B go...LDRs with college aged girls just spell disaster...continue dating A...if you don't think it'd work out with A, then let her go too...then find a C...but that's just me...
ConfusedAsUsual Posted August 11, 2010 Posted August 11, 2010 Going to keep this short and simple. Girl A: Hot, 19 and into me, we'll be working together for the forseeable future. Girl B: Pretty, smart, 19 and leaving for college but going on a date with me saturday. Girl A I met first day on the job, girl B I was paired with the next day. Had lunch with girl B today since we work together, girl A gives me THE look that says "I'm jealous" and proceeds to text me about how upset she is. I like girl B, we can talk for hours with no lull and she's intelligent. Girl A is hot, very,very hot but the conversation part doesn't always go so smooth. She's shyer than girl B as well. It would be a no brainer and I'd go for girl B, but she's leaving for college about 2 hours from me. Advice? I still need to work with A when B leaves in a couple weeks, wish B was staying. so shes leaving? you can't still talk to her? For me intelligence is more important than looks, that only goes so far. But than again I'm a woman and I'm not that shallow.
Cracker Jack Posted August 11, 2010 Posted August 11, 2010 I don't think you can do much in regards to B. In regards to A, tho, I believe you could build something. Convo might seem dry now, but that could always improve. Perhaps she hasn't opened up to you completely, which might be why the convo isn't on a solid level just yet. So, I think Girl A is the way to go--but only if you really want to take a chance with her.
ConfusedAsUsual Posted August 11, 2010 Posted August 11, 2010 I don't think you can do much in regards to B. In regards to A, tho, I believe you could build something. Convo might seem dry now, but that could always improve. Perhaps she hasn't opened up to you completely, which might be why the convo isn't on a solid level just yet. So, I think Girl A is the way to go--but only if you really want to take a chance with her. If he said girl a was the one going to school I bet you guys would still pick her cause shes "hot" lol
Cracker Jack Posted August 11, 2010 Posted August 11, 2010 Why are you so salty? We know you dislike men who like "hot" women. We get it. And no, you're incorrect. If both positions were swapped, I'd say Girl B. So, you're wrong.
USMCHokie Posted August 11, 2010 Posted August 11, 2010 If he said girl a was the one going to school I bet you guys would still pick her cause shes "hot" lol Wow, I think we have ourselves a female OpenGL...but I merely speculate...
ConfusedAsUsual Posted August 11, 2010 Posted August 11, 2010 Why are you so salty? We know you dislike men who like "hot" women. We get it. And no, you're incorrect. If both positions were swapped, I'd say Girl B. So, you're wrong. No not at all. I think I'm attractive. It would just be nice to meet a guy that isn't so shallow but I don't think there are many left..
Cracker Jack Posted August 11, 2010 Posted August 11, 2010 Perhaps you should stop being so bitter about men in general. Sorry for derailing the topic, Engadget.
ConfusedAsUsual Posted August 11, 2010 Posted August 11, 2010 Perhaps you should stop being so bitter about men in general. Sorry for derailing the topic, Engadget. If guys would get real and stick with their caliber, some of us wouldn't be "bitter" lol
Cracker Jack Posted August 11, 2010 Posted August 11, 2010 If some of you would stop sucking when it came to choosing men, then we wouldn't be having this debate, now would we?
Sanman Posted August 11, 2010 Posted August 11, 2010 Go out with girl B, let her know you like her,but dno't wnat an LDR. Keep in touch with her. Go out with girl A if you want, but I am sure you are aware the problems of sh--ting where you eat. Otherwise, look for girl C.
ConfusedAsUsual Posted August 11, 2010 Posted August 11, 2010 If some of you would stop sucking when it came to choosing men, then we wouldn't be having this debate, now would we? now who sounds bitter? eh..
Cracker Jack Posted August 11, 2010 Posted August 11, 2010 How in the world does that sound better? It's called a rebuttal. Stick to caliber? What in the world is that supposed to mean?
tami-chan Posted August 11, 2010 Posted August 11, 2010 Going to keep this short and simple. Girl A: Hot, 19 and into me, we'll be working together for the forseeable future. Girl B: Pretty, smart, 19 and leaving for college but going on a date with me saturday. Girl A I met first day on the job, girl B I was paired with the next day. Had lunch with girl B today since we work together, girl A gives me THE look that says "I'm jealous" and proceeds to text me about how upset she is. I like girl B, we can talk for hours with no lull and she's intelligent. Girl A is hot, very,very hot but the conversation part doesn't always go so smooth. She's shyer than girl B as well. It would be a no brainer and I'd go for girl B, but she's leaving for college about 2 hours from me. Advice? I still need to work with A when B leaves in a couple weeks, wish B was staying. Do you have an end goal? If so, what is it? If you are just "going with the flow", then get to know them both...just be open about it.
mr.dream merchant Posted August 11, 2010 Posted August 11, 2010 Why not have an open relationship with B, and pursue A? Who says you need to have one or the other?
ConfusedAsUsual Posted August 11, 2010 Posted August 11, 2010 Why not have an open relationship with B, and pursue A? Who says you need to have one or the other? that coming from a womanizer
mr.dream merchant Posted August 11, 2010 Posted August 11, 2010 that coming from a womanizer Guilty as charged I guess.
USMCHokie Posted August 11, 2010 Posted August 11, 2010 Why not have an open relationship with B, and pursue A? Who says you need to have one or the other? Unlikely to work...Girl A is already jealous of Girl B...doubt Girl A would still want to see OP if he's still seeing Girl B in an "open relationship"...that might turn out bad...
mr.dream merchant Posted August 11, 2010 Posted August 11, 2010 Unlikely to work...Girl A is already jealous of Girl B...doubt Girl A would still want to see OP if he's still seeing Girl B in an "open relationship"...that might turn out bad... The open relationship would be their business of course, besides, it's an open relationship. You'll never know until you try OP. Option A already knows you have a thing for Option B, and I'm sure A knows B is leaving soon as well. The fact that A is still an option considering her knowledge of your fondness of B means that she still digs you and may even be willing to try and "steal" you from B so to speak. What better chance than in an open relationship?
tami-chan Posted August 11, 2010 Posted August 11, 2010 The open relationship would be their business of course, besides, it's an open relationship. You'll never know until you try OP. Option A already knows you have a thing for Option B, and I'm sure A knows B is leaving soon as well. The fact that A is still an option considering her knowledge of your fondness of B means that she still digs you and may even be willing to try and "steal" you from B so to speak. What better chance than in an open relationship? ohhhh MDM, "OPTION"...you are gonna get it
USMCHokie Posted August 11, 2010 Posted August 11, 2010 The open relationship would be their business of course, besides, it's an open relationship. You'll never know until you try OP. Option A already knows you have a thing for Option B, and I'm sure A knows B is leaving soon as well. The fact that A is still an option considering her knowledge of your fondness of B means that she still digs you and may even be willing to try and "steal" you from B so to speak. What better chance than in an open relationship? The jealousy issues would be more trouble than its worth, unless the open relationship was with Girl A...in which Girl A wouldn't mind that OP is also seeing Girl B...
mr.dream merchant Posted August 11, 2010 Posted August 11, 2010 The jealousy issues would be more trouble than its worth, unless the open relationship was with Girl A...in which Girl A wouldn't mind that OP is also seeing Girl B... Figured since A is already showing signs of jealousy there's no way in hell she'd be cool with an open relationship. That's why OP has to pull off an open relationship with B on the sly, and work over A. Of course all of this has to be done outside the workplace and when at the workplace things must be kept professional.
USMCHokie Posted August 11, 2010 Posted August 11, 2010 Figured since A is already showing signs of jealousy there's no way in hell she'd be cool with an open relationship. That's why OP has to pull off an open relationship with B on the sly, and work over A. Of course all of this has to be done outside the workplace and when at the workplace things must be kept professional. Yea...this is where you and I differ...but to each his own...
Author Engadget Posted August 11, 2010 Author Posted August 11, 2010 Do you have an end goal? If so, what is it? If you are just "going with the flow", then get to know them both...just be open about it. End goal? With the risk of sounding like a typical man, I need to get laid. However girl B is on my mind beyond just sex. She's attractive and intellectually stimulating. We discussed literature, movies, travel, religion and a lot of things. She told me the last guy she was seeing was just supposed to be a summer fling and it didn't work out because he was a jerk. If we got involved I might just be a summer thing. Keeping in contact with both is my goal, but I have to do it without angering the other and I already pissed off A eating lunch with B. I'm not shallow, I like B more but the fact that she's leaving is the X factor. Causing workplace drama is the other issue, but I have to get Bs number today. I am just trying to go with the flow and act on impulse.
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