Author Raderick Posted August 11, 2010 Author Posted August 11, 2010 Now slow down, son. You are getting ahead of yourself. This is how she-isn't-calling-me-back-and-it's-driving-me-insane threads get made. We get all giddy over that first date and the next thing we do is imagine her pregnant with all thirty of our kids. Lets just slow down. You can never go wrong with slow motion. I still got stuff cooking from 1994. You are already thinking about the future with prying her away from daddy. I wouldn't think past tomorrow for a while. I am glad your first meeting with well, I like South Park, your avatar and wine but I just don't want you to set yourself up. Lets take it one night at a time. Oh, trust me, I still have my feet on the ground, it's her that is going gaga. I like her and all, it's nothing more than that.
Sabali Posted August 11, 2010 Posted August 11, 2010 Oh, trust me, I still have my feet on the ground, it's her that is going gaga. I like her and all, it's nothing more than that. Good. That's what I want to hear. So did you hit it? Just kidding. Slow mo...
that girl Posted August 11, 2010 Posted August 11, 2010 Sabali - women were contacting you without a photo posted and with no contact from you? That seems very sketchy. Do you live in a small town? it's her that is going gaga Raderick- why do you think she is so gaga for you. Did you ever find out why she needed no contact for weeks?
Author Raderick Posted August 11, 2010 Author Posted August 11, 2010 Raderick- why do you think she is so gaga for you. Did you ever find out why she needed no contact for weeks? The phone she has is not hers, so right now she is using it on her parents' time and didn't want to use it. She though said she'd text and talk through IM while she's gone.
Sabali Posted August 11, 2010 Posted August 11, 2010 Sabali - women were contacting you without a photo posted and with no contact from you? That seems very sketchy. Do you live in a small town? That what was killing me! They just read a profile which was mostly me just screwing around and they actually sent me their numbers. The second person sent me her number immediately without any correspondence. She said she didn't have time to mess around typing messages back and forth (not in those exact words) and to just call her. I called her and she sounds like a nice person and an elegant lady but crazy is a master of disguise. I know that much! But we are going out on Friday or at least I think we are. My curiosity got the best of me. If she turns out to be nothing like her picture, I won't trip out or anything. I did wind up posting my pictures for a day. One lady asked me if I had been on any dates from the site yet and I told her no and she came right out and said in her reply then maybe we should make our first date together. I then started acting like a virgin because I jsut didn't know how to reply. I had took my profile down because my mind just couldn't process it all and it was getting very distracting. Someone emailed and asked me why did I do that and said she was just wondering. I was wondering why would she be wondering why I decided to take the thing down. I don't know... It felt kind of twilight zonish to me but I was wondering if it was normal to feel like this in the beginning because some of the women who I have messaged back and forth said they were overwhelmed by the new experience as well. Actually I am not from a small town. Well, I don't want to hijack Raderick thread anymore than I already have.
Author Raderick Posted August 11, 2010 Author Posted August 11, 2010 Ladies and gentlemen, she said the ILY......um.......
zengirl Posted August 11, 2010 Posted August 11, 2010 We ended up planning for yogurt on the beach. Something simple, before she talks off. I'm excited. That sounds perfect. A great first meet pick. However, ILY? Weird.
Sabali Posted August 11, 2010 Posted August 11, 2010 Ladies and gentlemen, she said the ILY......um....... Sounds like crazy has ditched its disguise.
Author Raderick Posted August 11, 2010 Author Posted August 11, 2010 Sounds like crazy has ditched its disguise. Adding onto the fact that partially the reason she decided to stay in town instead of head out with her parents is because she wants to hang out with me (along with other reasons, none she has disclosed to me with is alright, I hardly know her). Needless to say I'm dealing with a really bad bug in my body right so I'll be MIA for a while to anyone.
ReadyforLove Posted August 11, 2010 Posted August 11, 2010 One date and she already said ILY? I hope this psycho doesn't know where you live...
Author Raderick Posted August 11, 2010 Author Posted August 11, 2010 One date and she already said ILY? I hope this psycho doesn't know where you live... She doesn't, so yeah. I feel so weird and somewhat conflicted. She seemed like a cool person and we did kiss on the date but already loving me? I am more afraid of what she is going to do than me having to tell her to fall back down to planet earth.
alphamale Posted August 12, 2010 Posted August 12, 2010 once again i will reiterate that online dating is a waste of time for most people
ReadyforLove Posted August 12, 2010 Posted August 12, 2010 He's on a free site so it was worth a try.
Author Raderick Posted August 12, 2010 Author Posted August 12, 2010 (edited) So are you still communicating with her? Other than texting me that she was staying in town at 6 AM and then the three texts and four phone calls within a 5 minute span this afternoon, nope. Edited August 12, 2010 by Raderick
Author Raderick Posted August 12, 2010 Author Posted August 12, 2010 agreed.......................... I met my best friend and my ex on that web site, surely everyone there can't be crazies.....could be?
ReadyforLove Posted August 12, 2010 Posted August 12, 2010 and then the three texts and four phone calls within a 5 minute span this afternoon, nope. LMAO You can't be serious...
Author Raderick Posted August 12, 2010 Author Posted August 12, 2010 LMAO You can't be serious... As serious as I could possibly get.
marsle85 Posted August 12, 2010 Posted August 12, 2010 Hey stud! I'm also in the ________ area, and I'd love to get it on. Interested? :love:
Author Raderick Posted August 12, 2010 Author Posted August 12, 2010 Hey stud! I'm also in the ________ area, and I'd love to get it on. Interested? :love: :love:
Author Raderick Posted August 13, 2010 Author Posted August 13, 2010 I really want to send her the following e-mail. I don't like the idea of just disappearing without a trace, so I just want to leave a goodbye message, tell her why I decided to not continue anything, and wish her the best: (Crazy), I'd like to think that this won't be goodbye, but, sadly, it must be. The fact that you seriously want to begin the relationship RIGHT AFTER the first date, let alone already love me, scares me to no end. You're already showing me to friends, intend on introduction me to family when I hardly know you or you hardly know me, and then in part the reason you decide to stay in San Diego is because of me. This makes me think that your priorities are not in check. It is in part my fault for leading you on, but this is a mistake I will, and have, learned and will make myself a better person for it. I hope this becomes a lesson for you to not embrace someone into your life like you attempted to embrace me so soon. You're a great person, I am sure of that, but you are not the person I'd like to be in a relationship with. I honestly wish you all of the best of luck because that is what you deserve - the best. I have removed all means of contact to you from my phone, OKCupid and Facebook, and I hope that you do the same. - (Me).
zengirl Posted August 13, 2010 Posted August 13, 2010 I really want to send her the following e-mail. I don't like the idea of just disappearing without a trace, so I just want to leave a goodbye message, tell her why I decided to not continue anything, and wish her the best: Too, too long a note for such a thing with such a person.Also, half of this stuff is just to make you feel better, and plenty of it feeds a crazy person with false hope. Some of it needlessly attacks. Such a person isn't a good person to use "You" statements with too much. My edits: (Crazy), This is goodbye. I feel you have moved in too fast, and it really isn't what I want. We do not have the same priorities at all. I am only contacting you because I feel it impolite to suddenly go silent. However, this will be my last contact. I'm sure you're a good person, but you are not a person I'd like to be in a relationship with. Good luck. Please do not contact me again. - (Me).
Author Raderick Posted August 13, 2010 Author Posted August 13, 2010 Too, too long a note for such a thing with such a person.Also, half of this stuff is just to make you feel better, and plenty of it feeds a crazy person with false hope. Some of it needlessly attacks. Such a person isn't a good person to use "You" statements with too much. My edits: I made a couple changes, sent, and I got a reply 5 minutes later saying she wants to start over.
ReadyforLove Posted August 13, 2010 Posted August 13, 2010 I made a couple changes, sent, and I got a reply 5 minutes later saying she wants to start over. LMAO she is NUTS! Don't even bother responding to her. You said what needed to be said so now it's time to move on.
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