Author SpanksTheMonkey Posted July 26, 2010 Author Posted July 26, 2010 Were not married were just partners who are living together Semantics. You are feeling burdened and feeling used. He looks at it as not burdening you and not using you. You want him to make more dinero? Of course you do. He is happy with his job, not complacent. Tough these days to find a job that brings "happiness". Would you rather have him bringing home more money and being miserable? That is the chance you and he will take. Only, he ain't interested and is quite "happy" with the way things are. I def know hes not "happy" people who are happy with their jobs generally don't get depressed when payday comes. They use him in that job big time heck the mans been a faithful employee for 6 years and only gotten one 50 cent raise in all that time I've still got many friends who are struggling to find work. Before you get too worked up about this... understand that the job market is very tough except for high skill positions. Now, if he is just hesitant to go looking... this is common with many men. You should offer to help him with his resume, and job search. Hes just hesitant also it may be hes a little afraid that if his current employer finds out hes looking they will cut his hours even more! They do stuff like that as punishment if any one complains about anything I'd go ahead and do this. He may appreciate your contributions more when you split everything 50/50 and he realizes he has even less money. We sat down and talked thu a few things I think he truly realizes he can do better so thats a good start
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