How many women here will admit they are a misandrist?

[Woggle]

Yes, this is a relationship forum genius. People come here who are dealing with those type of problems. You won't find many who come here just to say they have a happy and perfect life. The amount of people here represent a very small fraction of the worlds population.

 

This board is a microcosm of male/female relationships.

[threebyfate]

This board is a microcosm of male/female relationships.

No, it's not. It's full of people who have suffered trauma from broken relationships, romantic or otherwise. Consider it a concentration of negative emotions. If you haven't figured that out by now, you're missing the most important point of why LS exists.

[carhill]

So now the guys are fighting amongst themselves

 

Good job ladies

[Woggle]

Getting back to the subject of the thread I respect honesty and I respect who come right out and tell me what they really feel. When I am in public and a woman smiles at me it makes me angry because I know deep down she probably wants to spit in my face or she is on her way home to treat a man like garbage. I am actually starting to respect my mother more than any other woman because she is an open misandrist and men know exactly where they stand. I wish more women showed that honesty.

[threebyfate]

Getting back to the subject of the thread I respect honesty and I respect who come right out and tell me what they really feel. When I am in public and a woman smiles at me it makes me angry because I know deep down she probably wants to spit in my face or she is on her way home to treat a man like garbage. I am actually starting to respect my mother more than any other woman because she is an open misandrist and men know exactly where they stand. I wish more women showed that honesty.

Translation: Unless you're willing to admit you're a misandrist, you're a liar. If you admit you're a misandrist, I hate you too.

[Woggle]

Translation: Unless you're willing to admit you're a misandrist, you're a liar. If you admit you're a misandrist, I hate you too.

 

I might not like an open misandrist but I do respect them.

[threebyfate]

I might not like an open misandrist but I do respect them.

I don't care that you feel this way. What I find so distasteful, is that you continue to hold onto your logical fallacies. You're not a stupid man but sometimes, you act really dumb.

[Citizen Erased]

Getting back to the subject of the thread I respect honesty and I respect who come right out and tell me what they really feel. When I am in public and a woman smiles at me it makes me angry because I know deep down she probably wants to spit in my face or she is on her way home to treat a man like garbage. I am actually starting to respect my mother more than any other woman because she is an open misandrist and men know exactly where they stand. I wish more women showed that honesty.

 

Honestly, if all men were like you I probably would be a misandrist. Thankfully they're not. The concept never even existed to me until all of you started rambling on like temper tantrum throwing little boys. If being the female version of you is to be a misandrist, I will run as far away from that as possible.

[Pyro]

My marriage is great. The ironic thing is that uf ever marry you will probably be divorced before I am.

 

Your marriage is not great because you don't have the balls to be open and honest with her about how you truly feel about her and her gender.

 

Uh no you are not a fortune teller so you are wrong. get a clue Woggle.

 

Again you don't know me or whom I will marry (assuming I do get married)

[Woggle]

Your marriage is not great because you don't have the balls to be open and honest with her about how you truly feel about her and her gender.

 

Uh no you are not a fortune teller so you are wrong. get a clue Woggle.

 

Again you don't know me or whom I will marry (assuming I do get married)

 

Honesty usually does not create attraction in a woman.

[Pyro]

Honesty usually does not create attraction in a woman.

 

I've never had issues in that department and I am as down to earth as you can get. I even have the cream of the crop now.

 

Anyone with no confidence in being themselves would say what you said.

[Sam Spade]

Is yin better than yang? or vice versa? What frustrates many of us is that we interact and work with women every day at school, work, etc., who are as smart and competent as we are, who display every trait of deserving equality imagineable, who integrate well in the working and scholarly worlds. We compete with women for school positions, jobs and career advancement in an environment that is currently skewed towards the advancement of women in several fundamental ways. We accept this state of affairs cheerfully (for the most part) because we are told it is to redress wrongs of the past. Wrongs that we had no hand in perpetuating. In essence, 20-50 y.o. men in the U.S. are handed a bill to pay when we never got to eat the meal. Where the workplace is concerned, we aren't shouting for the manager to come out, we aren't making a ruckus or a scene, despite the fact that we are paying for something we never got the benefit of. We aren't "happy" about it, but we accept that we are the product of our times.

 

Then, in the social world, that feminine competence and clear-headedness seems to fall by the wayside somehow. Women expect the same social double standards to remain in place that would anger them in the workplace, merely because they are favorable to women and unfavorable to men. Women expect to exhibit extremes of inconsistency and rationalizations in relationships, to maintain the upper hand as you always have in the world of reproduction (of which dating and relationships are subsets), yet to not be called out on it. To complain about such is, in fact, other than forums like this, a forbidden topic or the screaming of sexism and misogyny begins. You are quick to grab onto the notion of workplace and political equality, but abhor the concept of social equality where reproductive, relationship and dating issues are concerned.

 

So we men are expected to listen to politicized dogma about women as victims, to pay very real social costs as a consequence of that dogma, while simultaneously observing at school and work that the "victim" dogma is an utter fabrication used for political manipulation to the disadvantage of our gender, and then, to add insult to injury, we are expected to observe outmoded double standards in dating and relationships, to perpetuate social customs that are disadvantageous to us, while women are allowed to do most anything they want socially with no accountability whatsoever.

 

Why in the hell should we -protect- you? Infant mortality is not an issue any more, if someone wants to do violence on you, no amount of male meat shield is going to block a bullet. What exactly do you need protecting from, other than your own impulsiveness and tendency to favor emotion over reason? Is that it? that you want us to "protect" you from yourselves? I don't understand, please enlighten me as to this "protection" keeping careful to maintain your sense of equality as you enlighten. Isn't it time you matured past the point of needing "protection?"

 

The above explains the current gender relations crisis in the U.S. in a nutshell. You want to criticize my estimation of things? Fine, but don't do so without positing a rational alternative explanation or you will look exactly as churlish and capricious here as we see you acting socially.

 

 

 

 

Giving and kind? Flowery and Sweet? Neither myself nor any of my male acquaintances, not even my dad's generation, have ever experienced anything like that. But we would settle for basic human respect, consistent words and behavior, a willingness to address problems mutually, and not perpetually rationalizing all fault over to the male side of the yin-yang equation. The supreme irony of current gender relations is that any request made of women to behave more evenly, to accept accountability for their part in gender issues is inevitably met with "You just want to blame women for everything, you just hate women. It's your attitude, your X, your Y, your Z that is the problem, not us. Daddy told us we were perfect and WE ARE!"

 

So be it. As they say in the octagon, "Let's get it on!"

 

 

Quoted for telling it like it is .

Women are encouraged to experiment with all sorts of diverce and new roles, while men are expected to be stuck in their traditional roles as gentlemently working stiffs, with none of the matching benefits.

No way, Jose !

[hollywood undead]

I can spot a misandrist from a mile away yet most of them will deny it all day. They usually give the response that they love men or adore men which to me is like when racists say they have black friends. They claim not to hate men but when push comes to shove they show their true colors. What women here have the guts to be honest enough and tell us how they really feel?

 

Let me put it this way: the more I read on here, the more hopeless men seem to be to me.

 

Misandrist? Certainly not - I hate everyone equally, men and women alike.

 

Men only think about sex, are irresponsible and want to "live it up" and "play the field" until their 90s. They would screw any attractive woman they can get their mack on and are incapable of true loyalty and monogamy.

 

Women suck because they are gossipy, catty and annoying.

[shadowplay]

I love men is the misandrist version of I have black friends.

 

Trimmer is right. No matter what women write in response to your thread, they can't win in your eyes. If they say they hate men, they're proving your point. If they say they love men, you accuse them of lying, and they're proving your point.

 

You're not interested in real discussion or hearing other views. You're just looking for validation for your hatred. This is why your beliefs are so whack. You selectively filter out and rationalize any point of view you don't want to hear. Of course you see all women as misandrists, because you only notice the ones who are and stubbornly ignore all the rest as it would cause you cognitive dissonance to acknowledge them.

 

Maybe you should do some reading on psychology to better understand yourself.

[burning 4 revenge]

I don't care that you feel this way. What I find so distasteful, is that you continue to hold onto your logical fallacies. You're not a stupid man but sometimes, you act really dumb.

Woggle knows playing the emotionally damaged pretty boy gets him a lot of female attention

 

Thats all there really is to it

 

If you read LS lately youll see a lot more authentic misogyny than his Mickey Mouse posts

[shadowplay]

I don't care that you feel this way. What I find so distasteful, is that you continue to hold onto your logical fallacies. You're not a stupid man but sometimes, you act really dumb.

 

I don't know. I think to qualify as reasonably intelligent (in a broad sense) you need at least an ounce of self awareness. Maybe he's smart in narrow areas, but I've never seen it on LS. He's like a misogyny bot.

[threebyfate]

Woggle knows playing the emotionally damaged pretty boy gets him a lot of female attention

 

Thats all there really is to it

 

If you read LS lately youll see a lot more authentic misogyny than his Mickey Mouse posts

True and true.

[threebyfate]

I don't know. I think to qualify as reasonably intelligent (in a broad sense) you need at least an ounce of self awareness. Maybe he's smart in narrow areas, but I've never seen it on LS. He's like a misogyny bot.

That is all!

[burning 4 revenge]

True and true.

Some of the posts by Cognac and Meerkat ring true to me as real misogyny. Calizaggy was too in a different way

 

Plus all those guys were good writers

[Woggle]

That is because I am not a misogynist. I just tell it like it is.

[PinkToes]

Honestly, if all men were like you I probably would be a misandrist. Thankfully they're not. The concept never even existed to me until all of you started rambling on like temper tantrum throwing little boys. If being the female version of you is to be a misandrist, I will run as far away from that as possible.

 

I agree. And the rantings on the board are not a microcosm of life outside of this board. In the same way my pre-surgery reading scared the living daylights out of me, and turned out to be far from reality -- not only for me, but for every single person I've talked to in real life. Those people never posted about their positive experiences, because they were quickly back to living their lives.

 

People who have issues often need to talk about them. But most people learn and let go and move on from the bad stuff; they don't waste time trying to convince everyone else that they're either hopelessly naive or flat-out lying.

[Pyro]

That is because I am not a misogynist. I just tell it like it is.

 

:lmao:

Thanks for the laugh.

 

Both sentences are false BTW

[Trimmer]

There is no such thing as a mutually equal and loving relationship.

So how's yours, Wog?

 

Getting back to the subject of the thread I respect honesty and I respect who come right out and tell me what they really feel.

I know this has been said already, but I cant help translating again: If you disagree with me, you're being dishonest, which proves my point.

 

When I am in public and a woman smiles at me it makes me angry because I know deep down she probably wants to spit in my face or she is on her way home to treat a man like garbage. I am actually starting to respect my mother more than any other woman because she is an open misandrist and men know exactly where they stand. I wish more women showed that honesty.

...and the cycle is complete. Please don't have kids.

[hollywood undead]

Yeah, I agree.

[sally4sara]

I respect who come right out and tell me what they really feel.

 

But you don't have the balls to be honest in your personal life.

 

8 hours till take off!