Author Bells Posted January 23, 2009 Author Posted January 23, 2009 If you are hot or cool, then it is not creepy. So what are you? Hot, cool, or creepy? Huh? If she thinks your attractive, then it's not creepy, if she's not attracted, then she'll think you're creepy. Kind of like sexual harassment. It's "flirting" if she's attracted, it's "sexual harassment" if she's not.
alphamale Posted January 23, 2009 Posted January 23, 2009 If she thinks your attractive, then it's not creepy, if she's not attracted, then she'll think you're creepy. Kind of like sexual harassment. It's "flirting" if she's attracted, it's "sexual harassment" if she's not. so meeting random hot women on the streets of downtown chicago will work if the guy is really good looking, fit 'n trim, 6'3", wearing designer clothes and looks like he's rich? what is that? like 0.001% of all men?
Chinook Posted January 23, 2009 Posted January 23, 2009 I used to be a bar-tender in a city centre bar. I used to get punters coming in week after week who were funny and flirty. There used to be one particular group of guys who came in the bar and there was one particular guy who was cute. He'd always buy me a beer (which I wasn't allowed to drink). He never asked me out and I never gave him any indication he could. I was working, that's not what you do. But if he'd asked, yea I would have given him my number
alphamale Posted January 23, 2009 Posted January 23, 2009 He never asked me out and I never gave him any indication he could. I was working, that's not what you do. But if he'd asked, yea I would have given him my number why would he ask you out if you never showed interest??
djdiablo Posted January 23, 2009 Posted January 23, 2009 I concur with surfer dude. While it is indeed easier to meet women through friends, family, work, meeting girls randomly in public is something I think women dream of. And it's fun to do. I met two exes in this way. Yeah, the girls are working and they are stressed but think of it another way: you are there to make them happy AND relax them AND make them smile. Do that and you are in.
kdark Posted January 23, 2009 Posted January 23, 2009 My luck with hitting on girls in public always turns out well when I approach them when they look bored. That and when they have seen me regularly at the bank, store, or local target. I've always had good luck with women at target... Alpha is right, women have to be in the right mood for it to happen, unless the very sight of your gorgeous body and fashion puts them in one...
Chinook Posted January 23, 2009 Posted January 23, 2009 why would he ask you out if you never showed interest??The place I worked in was pretty high level. You don't go around poaching the punters. I smiled, I chatted to him and asked about his day. He still didn't ask. What else do you suggest...? Sitting on his knee and hanging my boobs in front of him...? I think not.
alphamale Posted January 23, 2009 Posted January 23, 2009 What else do you suggest...? Sitting on his knee and hanging my boobs in front of him...? I think not. extended eye contact and a big smile works wonders....it may have to be repeated a few times
whitburn1986 Posted January 23, 2009 Posted January 23, 2009 I once made friends with a female security guard in a store I regularly go to but was too embarrassed to flirt with her, for fear it would be caught on CCTV. We had conversation - not really flirting, more mundane day-to-day stuff and showbiz gossip discussion etc. The store was fairly quiet though when I went. I'm still friends with her now, still see her now and then. Some people are approachable - others aren't. But you'd never expect security guards to be, would you? I should add, I was, and still am, a regular in that particular store (not a chain btw).
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