Issues & tissues Posted September 21, 2008 Share Posted September 21, 2008 Aren't relationships complicated enough when just two people are involved? Link to post Share on other sites
mental_traveller Posted September 22, 2008 Share Posted September 22, 2008 Then get one of those chairs that hangs from the ceiling. Get a dildo the size of king kong's dong. Get some handcuffs, rope, have sex in a public bathroom, get a book on kama sutra, start your own personal home video porn collection. ANYTHING but introducing someone else in the mix. If both of you really want it though and think neither of you will get jealous, well then its your call. But I think it would be a huge mistake. What makes you think your preferences are suitable for someone else? Some people try threesomes without problems. It's reasonable to point out the potential pitfalls, but not reasonable to say it will be the death knell of any relationship. IMO you seem pretty narrow-minded and judgemental - why not get out more and experiment with new things in life, it can be fun! Link to post Share on other sites
mental_traveller Posted September 22, 2008 Share Posted September 22, 2008 Why anyone would want to have a threesome when in a relationship is beyond me. It speaks volumes of amorality within the human race. I will add that from what I have heard and read threesome's destroy even the most solid relationships, is it worth it? I will never have a threesome because they do not interest me, just like Lesbian's do not interest me. Describing people as "amoral" when you know virtually nothing about them is itself pretty immoral and hypocritical. Link to post Share on other sites
Owl Posted September 22, 2008 Share Posted September 22, 2008 I had a threesome last year with one of my best friends and his wife, we are still friends. Although I will add; right after that weekend his wife kept calling and texting me saying she wanted to do more with me, without her husbands (my friend) knowledge. At that point I stated to her that I cannot do anything under the nose of my friend, it's not right. She got mad and made some derogatory statements saying she would never cheat on her H blah, blah, blah. Personally I think it is risky engaging in multiple partners, but it can work if everyone is mature and understands the implications up front. Cheers! HERE is a very, very common outcome of this kind of thing. And something you'd better very seriously consider before you get too far down this path. I've got to laugh at Lizzie heartily recommending you hire a professional...you might consider PM'ing her and asking if you live near her...I don't know what her rates are, but there's nothing like drumming up business on the internet! ROFLMBO!!! Link to post Share on other sites
twice_shy Posted September 23, 2008 Share Posted September 23, 2008 What makes you think your preferences are suitable for someone else? Some people try threesomes without problems. It's reasonable to point out the potential pitfalls, but not reasonable to say it will be the death knell of any relationship. IMO you seem pretty narrow-minded and judgemental - why not get out more and experiment with new things in life, it can be fun! I don't find anything fun about someone else being with my significant other sexually when committed to me and vice versa. If you or anyone else does, then have at it. Just don't complain when the problems and jealousy set in because someone broke one of the silly swinging groundrules. Link to post Share on other sites
Krajt Posted September 23, 2008 Share Posted September 23, 2008 Describing people as "amoral" when you know virtually nothing about them is itself pretty immoral and hypocritical. We are all amoral, threesomes and other warped ideas just reinforce my point. Link to post Share on other sites
Shygirl15 Posted September 23, 2008 Share Posted September 23, 2008 Aren't relationships complicated enough when just two people are involved? lol.. 2nd question: do we really have to imitate everything we see in porn movies? Link to post Share on other sites
twice_shy Posted September 24, 2008 Share Posted September 24, 2008 What makes you think your preferences are suitable for someone else? Some people try threesomes without problems. It's reasonable to point out the potential pitfalls, but not reasonable to say it will be the death knell of any relationship. IMO you seem pretty narrow-minded and judgemental - why not get out more and experiment with new things in life, it can be fun! You also seemed to completely gloss over the fact that I said: "If both of you really want it though and think neither of you will get jealous, well then its your call. But I think it would be a huge mistake." What is so judegmental about that? Not a thing. Narrow-minded? That'd be like saying "eating feces is fantastic fun!!! Its narrow minded for you to think that its not" I expressed my opinion. I didn't say "YOU ARE WRONG and an idiot"....now did I? Link to post Share on other sites
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