Kamille Posted March 5, 2008 Posted March 5, 2008 KMT, I know you're chillness embodied, but seriously all that's going on here is that you're really into this girl. When did you leave her a voice message? Today? Then give her a couple of days to call you back. Text her if you want - but I will try to clarify what I mean. Once you've left a voice message, you have clearly put the ball in her court. Now you're in waiting for reply mode, which apparently isn't your forte. If you text her, you will be prolongating the 'waiting for reply mode' for no good reason really. I mean, chances are, if she's interested, she will reply to your phone call. If she isn't, the text message won't make much of a difference.
underpants Posted March 5, 2008 Posted March 5, 2008 I think you shouldn't try to be clever unless it comes naturally at the moment you're leaving the message. It's better to just be yourself, so I recommend saying something like, "I'm a man, that means I have to make the calls, and generate interest and all that stuff. Look you put out the signs when I met you, you were flirty, you flat out told me the guy you were hanging with was just a co-worker, and thats what prompted me to ask for the number, and then you spelled your name cause you wanted to make sure I got it right... And in an attempt to avoid something like this, I said if you give me your number, I'm going to call you to go out. So most likely the msg I left some how screwed it up... Or one of your friends you were hanging out with bad mouthed me after I left "I can't believe you gave that guy your number"... Or your attraction to me some how wore off... or something came up... or a combination of all or some... yeah theres alot at work here... If I don't get a call back, I'll make a last ditch effort either tommorow or the day after that at some txt, but then I quit. I've seen a well placed txt turn things around. Hope to hear from you soon!" Oh my. That is priceless. As a woman I am not sure I would be returning that call. Just being honest.
xpaperxcutx Posted March 5, 2008 Posted March 5, 2008 KMT, I know you're chillness embodied, but seriously all that's going on here is that you're really into this girl. When did you leave her a voice message? Today? Then give her a couple of days to call you back. Text her if you want - but I will try to clarify what I mean. Once you've left a voice message, you have clearly put the ball in her court. Now you're in waiting for reply mode, which apparently isn't your forte. If you text her, you will be prolongating the 'waiting for reply mode' for no good reason really. I mean, chances are, if she's interested, she will reply to your phone call. If she isn't, the text message won't make much of a difference. Yes, I agree with Kamille. KMT you're not acting like your usual cold self. Might you been a little put down that a stranger you hardly know is not giving you the time of day?
Author Green Posted March 5, 2008 Author Posted March 5, 2008 I am my usual self, couldn't care less about this person at the current time. Theres parts of the story I've left out for fear of revealing my sexcret identity
Pyro Posted March 5, 2008 Posted March 5, 2008 I called the girl who I met over the weekend. Got the vm again. Left a msg this time, and used the option to listen to my msg before sending. It didn't sound that great but I felt I could have done worse, so wrather then keep recording a million times I just sent it. Never got a call back, so my final hope is to try a txt... but it feels over. Good job. You now get a scooby snack. The ball is now in her court. Don't send a text now. That would imply you being desperate. I think you're right. I should have gone with the txt msg. No more leaving msg's for me He was being sarcastic KMT.
Author Green Posted March 5, 2008 Author Posted March 5, 2008 Good job. You now get a scooby snack. The ball is now in her court. Don't send a text now. That would imply you being desperate. I wasn't going to send her a txt untill nxt week or something when all hope of anything was gone. And if I sent the txt it wouldn't be out of desperation. More out of impatiance and anoyance for her wasting my valuable time with her bs. I relized Johan was j/k but I still liked the txt advice, the other stuff wasn't even funny.
Pyro Posted March 5, 2008 Posted March 5, 2008 I wasn't going to send her a txt untill nxt week or something when all hope of anything was gone. And if I sent the txt it wouldn't be out of desperation. More out of impatiance and anoyance for her wasting my valuable time with her bs. I relized Johan was j/k but I still liked the txt advice, the other stuff wasn't even funny. If you haven't heard from her by then, then there is no point in sending a text. Kind of juvenile to send one out of impatience and annoyance but whatever floats your boat. Use that energy instead to go prowl the streets.
Author Green Posted March 5, 2008 Author Posted March 5, 2008 If you haven't heard from her by then, then there is no point in sending a text. Kind of juvenile to send one out of impatience and annoyance but whatever floats your boat. Use that energy instead to go prowl the streets. this so called juvenile **** gets me laid
Pyro Posted March 5, 2008 Posted March 5, 2008 this so called juvenile **** gets me laid I believe you..........
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