Pyro Posted March 3, 2008 Posted March 3, 2008 I called her once already and made the choice not to leave some msg. I'll try again wednesday, and if she doesn't answer I'll try to have a cool msg prepared. I got the number Friday night, technicaly Saturday morning, so I don't think waiting till wednesday afternoon is to much of a foul Whatever floats your boat HMA.
Author Green Posted March 4, 2008 Author Posted March 4, 2008 I got a call from a different girl I'm romanticaly involved with who left some kind of important sounding message only to call her back and get her voice mail bah. damn phone tag
Kamille Posted March 4, 2008 Posted March 4, 2008 I got a call from a different girl I'm romanticaly involved with who left some kind of important sounding message only to call her back and get her voice mail bah. damn phone tag KMT's got a case of the phone tag jinx.
johan Posted March 4, 2008 Posted March 4, 2008 I got a call from a different girl I'm romanticaly involved with who left some kind of important sounding message only to call her back and get her voice mail bah. damn phone tag She's probably saying, "What a bunch of crap. I hate phone tag. Why didn't he just answer? I've been getting a lot of this lately. No respect." Her friends are probably telling her, "try to relax. Maybe his phone just wasn't on."
Author Green Posted March 4, 2008 Author Posted March 4, 2008 I am relaxed. If I started a thread about tip giving situations it wouldn't mean I was all stressed out. More people should complain about this crap. I'll let you guys know how it all turns out.
Kamille Posted March 4, 2008 Posted March 4, 2008 She's probably saying, "What a bunch of crap. I hate phone tag. Why didn't he just answer? I've been getting a lot of this lately. No respect." Her friends are probably telling her, "try to relax. Maybe his phone just wasn't on." Oh no I'll bet she's all zen and happy and at peace with the males of the universe. Apparently, she knows how important it is to leave a message. I'm guessing she probably also knows how to turn on a vibrator.
Author Green Posted March 4, 2008 Author Posted March 4, 2008 Oh no I'll bet she's all zen and happy and at peace with the males of the universe. Apparently, she knows how important it is to leave a message. I'm guessing she probably also knows how to turn on a vibrator. she does know how to turn on a vibrator, she talks real dirty to it
Pyro Posted March 4, 2008 Posted March 4, 2008 I am relaxed. If I started a thread about tip giving situations it wouldn't mean I was all stressed out. More people should complain about this crap. I'll let you guys know how it all turns out. Why should more people complain about it? Its pretty pointless to stress out over it.
underpants Posted March 4, 2008 Posted March 4, 2008 More people should complain about this crap. Complain about what??? Not returning a call to a random number that shows up on your phone? You played a little game and called her with no message to gauge interest. Good for her for not responding. If she had responded she might be one of those phone freaks that are always checking their phone and responding to random numbers. KMT, do you do that? Now you are going to wait until Wed to call again. She may have already written your off. Honestly, what is so terrible about calling and saying "hey this is HMA, I met you at so and so, and you gave me your number. I wanted to call you and if you are interested I would like to take you out?". How hard is that? I would think much easier then all the game playing. No?
Pyro Posted March 4, 2008 Posted March 4, 2008 Complain about what??? Not returning a call to a random number that shows up on your phone? You played a little game and called her with no message to gauge interest. Good for her for not responding. If she had responded she might be one of those phone freaks that are always checking their phone and responding to random numbers. KMT, do you do that? Now you are going to wait until Wed to call again. She may have already written your off. Honestly, what is so terrible about calling and saying "hey this is HMA, I met you at so and so, and you gave me your number. I wanted to call you and if you are interested I would like to take you out?". How hard is that? I would think much easier then all the game playing. No? Exactly. You may hate playing games KMT but what you are doing is playing a phone tag game with these women. Is it all worth it to not leave a phone message?
Author Green Posted March 4, 2008 Author Posted March 4, 2008 Why should more people complain about it? Its pretty pointless to stress out over it. I'm not stressed, and nothing I ever say or do is pointless. Complain about what??? Not returning a call to a random number that shows up on your phone? Yes, and its not so random if she had the sense to remember that she gave me her digits. You played a little game and called her with no message to gauge interest. Good for her for not responding. My little game as you call it was to avoid leaving some lame message that would make her lose interest. If she had responded she might be one of those phone freaks that are always checking their phone and responding to random numbers. KMT, do you do that? Yeah I respond, lots of people do... It makes me feel better about it if your implying you don't. Now you are going to wait until Wed to call again. Thats what I said, and I didn't just pull Wednesday out of hat magicaly, its the first day I might be free to do something, its also a good day for me to gauge my weekend if nothings posible that night. She may have already written your off. Honestly, what is so terrible about calling and saying "hey this is HMA, I met you at so and so, and you gave me your number. I wanted to call you and if you are interested I would like to take you out?". How hard is that? Not hard at all. But please I'm a little more interesting then that. And I highly doubt she's written me off.
Pyro Posted March 4, 2008 Posted March 4, 2008 I'm not stressed, and nothing I ever say or do is pointless. My little game as you call it was to avoid leaving some lame message that would make her lose interest. Stressing out over leaving a message is very pointless. If anyone is going to lose interest for someone just because of a voice message, then they are a waste of time to put it nicely. IMO, you are freaking out over something stupid.
underpants Posted March 4, 2008 Posted March 4, 2008 Oh HMA, There is a whole other level of game. Please advance. It is simple and less stressful and in attaining it you do weed out some problematic types. Honestly, if I see a random number with no message I assume it is a wrong number and that is it. Sometimes is just says unknowned number. I don't really think about it too much. Just call her tomorrow and leave a message and include you number at the risk of being redundant because it may or may not show up on her phone. I would think the super hero of horniness would be a little more direct and confident.
Jilly Bean Posted March 4, 2008 Posted March 4, 2008 My little game as you call it was to avoid leaving some lame message that would make her lose interest. Yes, but calling her and HANGING UP and pussying out and NOT leaving a message is far more lame. I'd rather hear a guy stumble over his words on a vm than call and hang up. It's juvenile. And if she has lost interest, it would be because of the phone games, NOT because of a (potentially) awkward vm...
Pyro Posted March 4, 2008 Posted March 4, 2008 Actually KMT admitted on the off-topic thread last week that he is not the HMA, so we have to come up with a new nickname.
Author Green Posted March 4, 2008 Author Posted March 4, 2008 First off I will say it again I'm not scared or stressed out about this. LS forums are for exactly this type of conversation. Personaly I think I've done no harm. I'll call this person a day ahead of what I wanted to do, and I predict she will not answer, so I will have a message ready for the vm. As for the other girl I am now playing phone tag with I know her very well, but she is such a flake with the phone. She calls late as heck leaving some kryptic message about how important it is she talks with me and now after multiple calls I can not get in touch with this person.
Author Green Posted March 5, 2008 Author Posted March 5, 2008 I called the girl who I met over the weekend. Got the vm again. Left a msg this time, and used the option to listen to my msg before sending. It didn't sound that great but I felt I could have done worse, so wrather then keep recording a million times I just sent it. Never got a call back, so my final hope is to try a txt... but it feels over.
Kamille Posted March 5, 2008 Posted March 5, 2008 I called the girl who I met over the weekend. Got the vm again. Left a msg this time, and used the option to listen to my msg before sending. It didn't sound that great but I felt I could have done worse, so wrather then keep recording a million times I just sent it. Never got a call back, so my final hope is to try a txt... but it feels over. Oh no, no text. Once you have left a message, you are free to go on with your life until you get a reply. That way, if you happen to notice you haven't gotten a reply, you are way too past it to care.
johan Posted March 5, 2008 Posted March 5, 2008 I don't think you should have left a message. Leaving messages is what desperate people do.
Author Green Posted March 5, 2008 Author Posted March 5, 2008 Oh no, no text. Once you have left a message, you are free to go on with your life until you get a reply. That way, if you happen to notice you haven't gotten a reply, you are way too past it to care. no more advice from you on getting girls. I've already noticed I haven't gotten a reply, and I already don't care about it the way you think I do I don't think you should have left a message. Leaving messages is what desperate people do. I think you're right. I should have gone with the txt msg. No more leaving msg's for me
Kamille Posted March 5, 2008 Posted March 5, 2008 no more advice from you on getting girls. Ah you'll see my friend. The ways of the message are designed to set your mind at peace while maximising returns on your investments. Anyone who has masturbated in the last few hours will understand.
Author Green Posted March 5, 2008 Author Posted March 5, 2008 Ah you'll see my friend. The ways of the message are designed to set your mind at peace while maximising returns on your investments. Anyone who has masturbated in the last few hours will understand. could you be anymore kryptic??? I have no idea what your talking about you but you've obviously been masterbating recently. I'm a man Kamille, that means I have to make the calls, and generate interest and all that stuff. Look this girl put out the signs when I met her, She was flirty, She flat out told me the guy she was hanging with was just a co-worker, and thats what prompted me to ask for the number, and then she spelled her name cause she wanted to make sure I got it right... And in an attempt to avoid something like this, I said if you give me your number, I'm going to call you to go out. So most likely the msg I left some how screwed it up... Or one of her friends she was hanging out with bad mouthed me after I left "I can't believe you gave that guy your number"... Or her attraction to me some how wore off... or something came up... or a combination of all or some... yeah theres alot at work here... If I don't get a call back, I'll make a last ditch effort either tommorow or the day after that at some txt, but then I quit. I've seen a well placed txt turn things around
underpants Posted March 5, 2008 Posted March 5, 2008 (edited) Ah you'll see my friend. The ways of the message are designed to set your mind at peace while maximising returns on your investments. Anyone who has masturbated in the last few hours will understand. So true. KMT, why don't you leave a silly message. That way you can let her know you peaked her interest while at the same time requiring a return call. It might just be fun. If she fails to return the call then no biggie. A prank call. Those can be fun. Just call her and say: I've fallen and I can't get up. Life alert left me this number. Please save me. Hey, I noticed you put your chocolate in my peanut butter. We should get together and talk about this. This is Houstin ...we have a problem. Call me back. Or maybe someone else has a better idea. ...edit...sorry, I see that you did leave a message today. She might call you back tomorrow. Don't get bent out of shape just yet. Edited March 5, 2008 by underpants
johan Posted March 5, 2008 Posted March 5, 2008 So true. KMT, why don't you leave a silly message. That way you can let her know you peaked her interest while at the same time requiring a return call. It might just be fun. If she fails to return the call then no biggie. A prank call. Those can be fun. Just call her and say: I've fallen and I can't get up. Life alert left me this number. Please save me. Hey, I noticed you put your chocolate in my peanut butter. We should get together and talk about this. This is Houstin ...we have a problem. Call me back. Or maybe someone else has a better idea. I think you shouldn't try to be clever unless it comes naturally at the moment you're leaving the message. It's better to just be yourself, so I recommend saying something like, "I'm a man, that means I have to make the calls, and generate interest and all that stuff. Look you put out the signs when I met you, you were flirty, you flat out told me the guy you were hanging with was just a co-worker, and thats what prompted me to ask for the number, and then you spelled your name cause you wanted to make sure I got it right... And in an attempt to avoid something like this, I said if you give me your number, I'm going to call you to go out. So most likely the msg I left some how screwed it up... Or one of your friends you were hanging out with bad mouthed me after I left "I can't believe you gave that guy your number"... Or your attraction to me some how wore off... or something came up... or a combination of all or some... yeah theres alot at work here... If I don't get a call back, I'll make a last ditch effort either tommorow or the day after that at some txt, but then I quit. I've seen a well placed txt turn things around. Hope to hear from you soon!"
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