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Old 8th June 2010, 1:49 PM   #1
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Do most women fantasize about Black Men sexually?

The Black Man is painted as the pinnacle of masculinity,sexual prowess etc u always hear about those cuckold couples where the white guy watches a black man have sex with his wife

Do most women fantasize what it would be like sexually with a Black guy?
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I sometimes fantasize about what it would be like sexually with a real woman.
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Sure, every one of them wants a roll in the hay with Steve Harvey and/or Chris Rock.
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The ones who want something exotic probably do, however most women I've known didn't, or were wholly against the idea.
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I don't fantasize, but I admit that I find African Americans, South Americans AND North Indians 'hotter' when it comes to looks. Only similarity that I can see here is that they're all dark.

Fortunately, I don't give two hoots about looks, as all the guys I've ever been with were none of the above. It isn't as if I wasn't offered the chance, either.
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I sometimes fantasize about what it would be like sexually with a real woman.
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And this topic is funny.
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Yeah I fantasise about having sex of some kind before I die...

I guess there is the myth of the well hung black man that stil persists to some degree, but I think it is more along the lines of men being into Asian women, that it's something exotic.

I don't fantasise about black guys in the way you mentioned in your post (I would if I'd met some super gorgeous guy and he happened to be black, then I would be imagining all sorts of things, but that would go for any guy).
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Old 8th June 2010, 2:09 PM   #8
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The Black Man is painted as the pinnacle of masculinity,sexual prowess etc u always hear about those cuckold couples where the white guy watches a black man have sex with his wife

Do most women fantasize what it would be like sexually with a Black guy?
No, Women don't fantasize about men sexually at all.
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Old 8th June 2010, 2:25 PM   #9
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The cuckold fetish is a throw back to racist views of interracial sex being taboo. Toss in a pinch of myth about the likely size of a man of color's penis for uhhhh, good measure .

And really, the exotic factor of dark skin is a geographical property. There is nothing exotic about men of color here in DC where I live. Caucasians are the minority here.

To nix certain skin colors entirely for sex partners is on the fringe of racism. Its one thing to have less attraction to a certain ethnicity, its another thing entirely to say you'd never, ever, no matter what other qualities a person has, not sleep with them due to skin color.
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Old 8th June 2010, 2:42 PM   #10
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Yeah I fantasise about having sex of some kind before I die...

I guess there is the myth of the well hung black man that stil persists to some degree, but I think it is more along the lines of men being into Asian women, that it's something exotic.
I had a black woman tell me once that black men arn't bigger, their just half-hard all the time.
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The Black Man is painted as the pinnacle of masculinity,sexual prowess etc u always hear about those cuckold couples where the white guy watches a black man have sex with his wife

Do most women fantasize what it would be like sexually with a Black guy?
Errr, where and when is the black man alone painted as the pinnacle of masculinity? And I never hearda bout "cuckold couples" where the guy watches a black man have sex with his wife.

No, I don't particular find African American men sexually attractive. Although I do think they can be very handsome with amazing skin, I never had romantic feelings toward a black man.
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I personally don't fantasise about black men - I only find myself attracted to a certain type of light skinned, blue eyed man. I don't even particularly find brown eyes attractive in a white man; I like my men to be very fair.

Why is it on the fringe of racism if I'm not attracted to certain skin colours or features? As long as I treat everyone in society equally, why is it wrong to admit that I'm not physically attracted to some of them? If it's wrong to say I'm not attracted to black men, is it also wrong to say I'm not attracted to fat men, grey haired men, bald men, men with big noses, etc? It seems to me that I have to be somewhat discriminating in who I'm attracted to; obviously I'm not going to be attracted to everyone! Why is it ok to only be attracted to men with hair, but it isn't ok to only be attracted to men with white skin?

As an extension of that, if I'm going to have children with a man, I want children of my own ethnicity who look somewhat like me, therefore I only want to have a sexual and romantic relationship with a partner of my own ethnicity. Is it racist to prefer not to have mixed race children?
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And I never heard about "cuckold couples" where the guy watches a black man have sex with his wife.
You are not watching the right kind of porn.

No, I have not heard of it either.
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Oh here we go, guaranteed 15+ page thread.

It feels good to know black men like myself are viewed by some as some kind of novelty and not a real person or anything
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That's what we call objectification OpenGL. Welcome to the world of women.


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You are not watching the right kind of porn.

No, I have not heard of it either.
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