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Old 3rd March 2010, 6:15 PM   #1
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Why do women go crazy when rejected by a man they like?

Whats the deal with chicks losing their minds when they get rejected by some dude they like, regardless of the type of relationship.

Whats up with all the nasty stuff and spreading rumours and bad mouthing the guy? And also being spiteful.

And then telling other girls that he's a "bad guy" and not date-worthy?

I don't see many men acting like this
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Old 3rd March 2010, 6:18 PM   #2
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Luckily, I don't see men acting like this anymore. However, back in highschool, boys definitely did spread nasty rumors about girls way more than the girls did about boys.
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I don't see many men acting like this
One of the many differences between males and females.
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Old 3rd March 2010, 6:20 PM   #4
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I don't see many men acting like this
You've obviously never met any of my ex's.

Are you breaking up with these women by reciting the lyrics of "Low Self Opinion" by Rollins Band? Because that might explain why they go crazy...
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Er, I don't see many women acting like this, either. Perhaps it speaks ill of the particular circles you move in.
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Old 3rd March 2010, 6:23 PM   #6
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You've obviously never met any of my ex's. ...
no i haven't

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Are you breaking up with these women by reciting the lyrics of "Low Self Opinion" by Rollins Band? Because that might explain why they go crazy...
no i'm not
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Old 3rd March 2010, 6:30 PM   #7
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I`ve heard women tell people a guy who rejected them must be gay.

I think these are women with "Goddess Complexes" who really can`t fathom the idea that a man could possible find them unattractive.
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If LS is any example, women individualize and target the person who done them wrong, whereby men just hate, disrespect and distrust the entire female gender.
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Because they can't stand the blow to their ego. The fact that a man does not find them attractive is just too much for them.
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If LS is any example, women individualize and target the person who done them wrong, whereby men just hate, disrespect and distrust the entire female gender.
well i have reason to suspect that this woman i dumped by text last week is spreading rumours and bad mouthing me to other people, especially to other women in our group. shes is saying things like i'm mean and an ass----- who treats womens like crap

of course this will probably get me more dates - but why would she do this?

i haven't said anything about her to anyone
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Enough with these generalizations. Now, onto some actual studied behavior:

Men and women tend to deal with relationships differently. **Operative word being "tend"** Men tend to fall in love quicker, and be more effected by a woman breaking up with him. This is for many reasons, one being because when a woman and man break up- it is often the man's social standing that decreases, because typically it is the woman's more outgoing nature that provides socialization. Furthermore, men tend to have more aggressive ways with coping with a breakup- ex: punching things, substance abuse, denial, etc. Women ruminate, meaning- they review the breakup over and over and over in their heads, talk about it with their friends until they reach acceptance. It's possible the gossip you speak of is just a branch off of what researchers have identified. Rumination.
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Women ruminate, meaning- they review the breakup over and over and over in their heads, talk about it with their friends until they reach acceptance. It's possible the gossip you speak of is just a branch off of what researchers have identified. Rumination.
well i don't want them "ruminating" about me
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of course this will probably get me more dates - but why would she do this?

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normally i would just split but since i've gone out with her for a month i sent her a text message. i figured it was better than nothing and at least she'll know. she sounded pretty pissed off.

the txt convo went something like this:

Dawn: So i don't have my kid this wknd. Can we get together.
Alpha: Sorry but i'm busy all wknd. I need time to think and i'm really not feeling the chemistry any more
Dawn: Thats a nice thing to say in a text - whatever
Alpha: Sorry
Dawn: Don't be sorry, i should have listened when you said you weren't a nice guy

end of transmission
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why should i call her after that? in retrospect i should just have blown her off and disappeared - that would have caused fewer problems. now shes sending me mean text messages saying i'm an ass**** and how im not a decent person and stuff
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well i have reason to suspect that this woman i dumped by text last week is spreading rumours and bad mouthing me to other people, especially to other women in our group. shes is saying things like i'm mean and an ass----- who treats womens like crap

of course this will probably get me more dates - but why would she do this?

i haven't said anything about her to anyone
I quoted the above, from your other thread as a reminder, why she's so pissed off at you.
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Old 3rd March 2010, 7:14 PM   #15
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I'm just going out on a limb here, but maybe she's bad-mouthing you because you dumped her via text. Not very manly, nor very alpha. Next time have balls enough to tell a woman gently, and in person.
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