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Old 12th March 2019, 1:58 PM   #31
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Originally Posted by Curiousroxy86 View Post
See people who care about another person gives. If you like someone AND want to be in a relationship with someone AND have the mindset of making a relationship work more than likely your going to be giving. Your going to do things to try to make the other person happy. That's what relationship oriented people do.
Love this this is a nice summary for any guide book on healthy relationships.

Selfish people are very easy to spot once you know the signs, even at the beginning when they are putting on their fake front to lure you in. The fake act isn't and can never be the same as when a giver is being nice in the beginning. There's an air of....something not being quite right. Compliments are a bit OTT. Actions don't match words. Even when they're being 'nice', you sense there's something not quite right. If you listen to your intuition, it'll let you know. There's an air of disingenuity (is that a word?) that if you are living in reality, and not subconsciously using fantasies/hollywood/romance novels/celebrities etc as a template for relationships, you will be able to sniff out very easily and find cringeworthy.

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Old 12th March 2019, 2:13 PM   #32
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even if you married a prostitute, they're not going to put out sex on demand. Sex is usually frequent in the beginning and slows down.

Originally Posted by somelamedude View Post

The thing I want a loyal, loving woman who cooks for me like I would cook for her, would take care of me like I would take care of her, who is up for fun dates, and puts out on sex on demand. I know the latter sounds kinda bad but who wants a bitter woman who withholds love? Not me..
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Old 16th March 2019, 5:04 PM   #33
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It's important to find a woman who wants to have sex with you. If you treat her nicely and support her etc, you will get more sex.
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Old 16th March 2019, 5:50 PM   #34
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Originally Posted by somelamedude View Post
Anyways, I want to know what my chances are in finding an attractive, loyal, honest woman with no kids like this?
So...first of all you need to make sure that you're not observing or being witness to any type of coercive or forced relationship, and that this woman is acting fully out of her own free will and
would be able to leave the situation if she really wanted to.(Does not mean that she does not have psychological or mental/emotional/physical trauma in her background; only that she still
has autonomy over her own preferences, decisions and choices.)

Now, if you want the type of relationship where you have the de facto control over a sexual/romantic partner, then what you're actually looking for is to be a dom in a sub/slave relationship.
Or, you can also look-up 'head of household' and 'taken in hand', which are different versions of a similar type of lifestyle.

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<snip> most men are too...or are at least conditioned to accept feminists ideals.
This makes 'most men' look really weak and stupid -- which I do not believe that 'most men' are. (Although, of course, the weak and the stupid can be found within both genders.)

We, intelligent adult men and women, need to take full responsibility for all of our own negative programming and conditioning that we allow (for whatever reason) to rule us,
and/or that we refuse to let go -- and we need to give that responsibility to every other individual, as well.

That is, if an intelligent adult man wants to accept 'feminist ideals' (or 'spiritual ideals', or whatever other kind of ideals) as part of his personal philosophy and belief system,
it ought not to be put forth as if he has no control over it, or is not making his own free-will decision and choice about it.
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