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I have just split up with my gf after 2yrs 8months

I did every big mistake that everybody on here warns you off to try and get her back and just messed it up or mabey it was never going to work... so any way its been 3 weeks since we split and i was just wondering if anybody had some good songs to help move on thanks

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HokeyReligions

How about "Wipe Out" ? :)

 

Seriously though, find some upbeat music - stuff you liked before you met her.

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I Don't Hurt Anymore - Dinah Washington (you might not be ready for it yet, but it's inspirational)

 

One - U2 - or, my preference, U2 with Mary J. Blige. It tells 'em off.

 

Cry Me A River - Justin Timberlake (I know, but wait til you hear it)

 

Who I Am Hates Who I've Been - Relient K - also inspirational - tells you what an ass you're being and how you can't live your life this way

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I find that I am often humming "Float On" by Modest Mouse, or "In the Middle" by Jimmy Eat World when I want to pull myself out of a funk. They are really both songs that could be used to lift your spirits no matter what life circumstances might be getting you down.

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I don't know the name of it but it's by Adam Sandler. I think it was from the movie Wedding Singer. I love the part where he says the ony thing you did right is tell me that you loved me.

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I have just split up with my gf after 2yrs 8months

I did every big mistake that everybody on here warns you off to try and get her back and just messed it up or mabey it was never going to work... so any way its been 3 weeks since we split and i was just wondering if anybody had some good songs to help move on thanks

xxx

 

 

Try 'brand new start' by Paul Weller. He's got a great voice and feels the pain with you. You are better off without her, that's what I keep telling myself.

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BatteredByLove

Hrrm, I don't know if this is a song to get "over" them, but "I Can't Make You Love Me" by Bonnie Rait, "Goodbye My Lover" by James Blunt, and "Letting Go" by Dawson's Creek, these are my favorites, it's like "letting go" on a good note, not one of them crazy angry ones lol.

 

-BBL

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I just made a few discs for my sil who is getting divorced this may not be to everyone's taste but here's the track list.

 

Cheesy chick mix version:

ink Cadillac - aretha franklin

I wanna be rich - Calloway

Hero - Mariah Carey

You Learn - Alanis

If I had a million dollars - barenaked ladies

Feeling Alright - Huey Lewis (originally by joe cocker)

Excuses - Alanis

Anything but Ordinary - Avril Levigne

I'm Every Woman - Whitney Houston

Soar - Christina Aguilera

you make me feel like a natural woman - Aretha Franklin

Lose Yourself - Eminem

18 Wheeler - Pink

Strength of a Woman - Shaggy

Look thru my eyes - Phil Collins

Man I feel like a woman - Shania Twain

Any Man of mine - Shania Twain

One moment in time - Whitney Houston

 

The I hate men disc:

Let it Burn - Usher

Wish it would rain down - Genesis

You Oughtta Know - Alanis

My Happy Ending - Avril

Fighter - Christina Aguilera

Little Lies - Fleetwood Mac

Throwing it all away - Phil Collins

The ******* Song - Garth brooks

Misery - Pink and Stephen Tyler

Doth I protest too much - Alanis

Because of You - Kelly Clarkson

Out is Thru - Alanis Morisette

Numb - Pink

Everybody Hurts - REM

Something Happened on the way to heaven - Phil Colins

I learned from the best - Whitney Houston

A little Respect - Erasure

Boulevard of Broken Dreams - Green Day

 

Some other suggestions depending on your tastes:

 

I like the Cake version of I will Survive. They use the F word in their version

 

Carly Simon: You're So Vain

 

Nancy Sinatra-- These Boots Were Made for Walkin

 

Alanis Morisette- You Oughta Know

 

Paul Simon: 50 Ways to Leave your Lover

 

I Don't Care Any More - Genesis

 

Don't Talk -- 10,000 Maniacs

 

Ben Folds Five has "Breakup Song"

 

She's Not Just a Pretty Face" by Shania

 

"Kerosene" by Miranda Lambert

 

Empowerment/Support Songs:

Peter Gabriel-- Don't Give Up

-- Mercy Street

 

KT Tunstall -- Suddenly I See

 

Wallowing Music

10,000 Maniacs -- Like the Weather

Nelly Furtado-- Turn off the Light

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How about this one by UK band The Streets

 

Dry Your Eyes

 

In one single moment your whole life can turn 'round

I stand there for a minute starin' straight into the ground

Lookin' to the left slightly, then lookin' back down

World feels like it's caved in - proper sorry frown

Please let me show you where we could only just be, for us

I can change and I can grow or we could adjust

The wicked thing about us is we always have trust

We can even have an open relationship, if you must

I look at her she stares almost straight back at me

But her eyes glaze over like she's lookin' straight through me

Then her eyes must have closed for what seems an eternity

When they open up she's lookin' down at her feet

 

Dry your eyes mate

I know it's hard to take but her mind has been made up

There's plenty more fish in the sea

Dry your eyes mate

I know you want to make her see how much this pain hurts

But you've got to walk away now

It's over

 

So then I move my hand up from down by my side

It's shakin', my life is crashin' before my eyes

Turn the palm of my hand up to face the skies

Touch the bottom of her chin and let out a sigh

'Cause I can't imagine my life without you and me

There's things I can't imagine doin', things I can't imagine seein'

It weren't supposed to be easy, surely

Please, please, I beg you please

She brings her hands up towards where my hands rested

She wraps her fingers round mine with the softness she's blessed with

She peels away my fingers, looks at me and then gestures

By pushin' my hand away to my chest, from hers

 

Dry your eyes mate

I know it's hard to take but her mind has been made up

There's plenty more fish in the sea

Dry your eyes mate

I know you want to make her see how much this pain hurts

But you've got to walk away now

It's over

 

And I'm just standin' there, I can't say a word

'Cause everythin's just gone

I've got nothin'

Absolutely nothin'

 

Tryin' to pull her close out of bare desperation

Put my arms around her tryin' to change what she's sayin'

Pull my head level with hers so she might engage in

Look into her eyes to make her listen again

I'm not gonna ****in', just ****in' leave it all now

'Cause you said it'd be forever and that was your vow

And you're gonna let our things simply crash and fall down

You're well out of order now, this is well out of town

She pulls away, my arms are tightly clamped round her waist

Gently pushes me back and she looks at me straight

Turns around so she's now got her back to my face

Takes one step forward, looks back, and then walks away

 

Dry your eyes mate

I know it's hard to take but her mind has been made up

There's plenty more fish in the sea

Dry your eyes mate

I know you want to make her see how much this pain hurts

But you've got to walk away now

It's over

 

I know in the past I've found it hard to say

Tellin' you things, but not tellin' straight

But the more I pull on your hand and say

The more you pull away

 

Dry your eyes mate

I know it's hard to take but her mind has been made up

There's plenty more fish in the sea

Dry your eyes mate

I know you want to make her see how much this pain hurts

But you've got to walk away now.

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