Why do men cheat 'down'?

[a4a]

so for a midway conclusion.....

 

yes men will cheat (or women) on a more attractive partner with a less fortunate looking partner simply to get their rocks off?

 

OMG.... do you think this could be true????

[newbby]

Oh God I think I just wet myself.

 

i dont actually know who she is...

[blind_otter]

so for a midway conclusion.....

 

yes men will cheat (or women) on a more attractive partner with a less fortunate looking partner simply to get their rocks off?

 

OMG.... do you think this could be true????

 

Does anyone else remember the TeaCooler "Why can't I just get my dick wet even though I'm engaged?" post?

[tinktronik]

According to the urban dictionary:

 

 

 

adj.1) down for whatever ("you wanna knock these niggas out?" - "i'm bout it")

 

2) all about any or all of the hood, being gangsta, keepin it real, being hard or serious ("i wouldn't **** with that cat if i were you, dat boy is bout it")

 

3) generally better or more "all about" whatever is being compared ( "Them hoes can't front, they know J-lo's ass is (mo') bout it!")

 

4) made popular and possibly coined by Master P down south on his frist hit single (besides 'ice cream man') "bout it"-- check the song("you bout it? i'm bout it, bout it. We'll say you're 'bout it,' if you're bout it, bout it" -Master P)

 

noun: term used by many wank/wangsters; real cats say "i been bout it"

 

But I think this one is the most appropriate definition, considering the source:

 

5) A loose ass girl who is about doing every and anything.

Similar to hoe ("Me and my homeboys ran a train on the bout it last night.")

So glad I got checked for std's .... OH MY GOD....Its even worse now. I have no words . Im crying in hillarity.

[Asafan]

so for a midway conclusion.....

 

yes men will cheat (or women) on a more attractive partner with a less fortunate looking partner simply to get their rocks off?

 

OMG.... do you think this could be true????

 

Can you believe that!? I am positively dumbfounded! :lmao:

[newbby]

I would think some men think of it as a boost to there ego even if the girl is not so attractive or they just want to get their rocks off...... kinda like porn but live action.

 

I gotta a friend that has a fugly wife and has screwed fugly women to just get a different flavor from time to time. He calls his side "jobs" whores and sluts...... they are just holes to him.

 

so all in all its fortunate that you were able to get rid of the guys with that kind of mentality..

[hotgurl]

Does anyone else remember the TeaCooler "Why can't I just get my dick wet even though I'm engaged?" post?

 

Yes that was such a weird thread because I always thought teacooler was a girl.

[blind_otter]

Yes that was such a weird thread because I always thought teacooler was a girl.

 

Yeah man. The premise though, was "the dude" was engaged to be married but still wanted to just get his dick wet and chase strange poontang.

[tinktronik]

so all in all its fortunate that you were able to get rid of the guys with that kind of mentality..

Oh newby , we already knew that.

[tinktronik]

Yes that was such a weird thread because I always thought teacooler was a girl.

I thought it turned out TC was a troll and was both calhound and TC.

[newbby]

Oh newby , we already knew that.

 

oh okay, sorry to state the obvious....

[newbby]

I thought it turned out TC was a troll and was both calhound and TC.

 

i thought teacooler was a girl too, and she/he had a lady on her/his avatar...

[norajane]

Well, what about the guy who's cheating...maybe HE's not all that in the first place and he struck out with all the hot girls...

[newbby]

Well, what about the guy who's cheating...maybe HE's not all that in the first place and he struck out with all the hot girls...

 

this is what i was saying earlier, the ones who get the hotchicks are just damn lucky..

[DeeBrod83]

I have to agree; the guys with the hot chicks are probably just lucky.... I know I've seen plenty of mediocre guys with beautiful women and think WTF?? Maybe they have good personalities.... or deep pockets... Ha!

[stoopid_guy]

And to stoopid guy. NO WAY is taking Jolie over Aniston cheating down. She is WAY hotter, though admittedly not as classy.

Heck, I wouldn't even f--- Angelina Jolie with your d---!!! Aniston's just really cute.

 

Now, put the two of them in a room with Drew Barrymore and I wouldn't even realize they were there...

[Guest]

I have discovered it is not about how the woman looks, it is about how she makes the man feel about himself that causes him to cheat with ugly women. Ugly women have to try harder, they have to be nicer, more understanding and less demanding because that is what works for them.

 

Men look at beautiful women, but will sleep with and ugly woman if she gives him the attention he craves.

 

My husband was a drinker who cheated with two VERY unattractive bar whores. He is now sober and has related to me that it wasn't about their looks, it was about he felt with them. He could go to the bar, drink, party, raise hell and they were happy to be with him and encoraged his behavior, didn't see anything wrong with his drinking (of course they both have drinking problems as well). He would come home to me, nice looking, trim and fit, but I was bitchin' to high heaven because he was at the bar again, didn't let me know where he was for hours, was drunker than a skunk, told him he was a "worthless piece of ****" and then I would leave him for days at a time.

 

Well heck, that isn't too hard to figure out now. They made him feel good and stroked his ego, ugly or not, they were feel good women.

I on the other hand, he loved, but I was a real downer and flamed his desire to find acceptance and that ego boost. I took his ego (and I am not blaming myself, just having better understanding of why) ground it into the dirt, and at the time I felt rightly so because I had no understanding of alcoholism.

 

So, that is my opinion and life experience on the subject.

[a4a]

so all in all its fortunate that you were able to get rid of the guys with that kind of mentality..

 

well I only had that one time...... probably because I had already disengaged from the R and it was just the logistics of getting out..... the cheat happened and I really did not care.... actually made it easier for me to dump quicker without guilt So yes I suppose it was quite a blessing. Fugly mate chasers do serve a purpose from time to time.

 

and I would wish them well if I really cared enough to do so

[blind_otter]

I have to agree; the guys with the hot chicks are probably just lucky.... I know I've seen plenty of mediocre guys with beautiful women and think WTF?? Maybe they have good personalities.... or deep pockets... Ha!

 

Eh, I'm less concerned with physical appearance and I like rugged looking men. But with women, because I am bi, I am a lot more demanding about their physical appearance. Go fig.

[newbby]

Eh, I'm less concerned with physical appearance and I like rugged looking men. But with women, because I am bi, I am a lot more demanding about their physical appearance. Go fig.

 

this is bizarre

[tinktronik]

Eh, I'm less concerned with physical appearance and I like rugged looking men. But with women, because I am bi, I am a lot more demanding about their physical appearance. Go fig.

Yep , I agree wholeheartedly with this. Im not nearly as picky with mens appearance than I would be with womens.

[blind_otter]

this is bizarre

 

some people like blonds. some people like brunettes. What I prefer in terms of my sexual partners is not bizarre, unless you feel it's ok for other people to comment on your personal preference.

[DeeBrod83]

I'd definitely have to agree Blind Otter. I have very high standards for women, and not so high for men. I like a guy that's solid and manly, but that's about it. But women just seem to be so much better looking in general so there is more to be picky about!

[a4a]

Eh, I'm less concerned with physical appearance and I like rugged looking men. But with women, because I am bi, I am a lot more demanding about their physical appearance. Go fig.

 

oh man I agree..... it is a society thing or a nature thing?

 

women must be attractive........ men must only be worthy?

 

I dated two guys just because I felt sorry for them....

true..... spent the entire time trying to boost their confidence and help them move on. Not ugly guys but not up to my typical shallow standards. no monkey love tho!!! no way!!

[newbby]

Yep , I agree wholeheartedly with this. Im not nearly as picky with mens appearance than I would be with womens.

 

with women i usually try to find more beautiful things about her looks when she is plain or considered unnattractive, whereas with men i try to find better things in their personality, i suppose its the same sort of thing. i wonder why...