Maxster Posted January 13, 2002 Share Posted January 13, 2002 Hello again everyone! It's has been over a week since I last posted a message on this forum. The last time I did it was the question whether or not I sould get back with my ex? She called again but this time the topic of getting back together again did not come up. We spoke about other things and that was all. My reason for posting a new message is that I have another problem on my hands. I just found out that a certain person I work with is interested in me. The reason why I know is that a friend of hers', asked if I'm still with my ex and of course I said no. This person is very attractive and funny but somehow I feel I'm not ready to start dating. I would like to go out with her as friends and that's all! I have too much feelings left over for my ex that it wouldn't be fair for this person to see! Is this feeling normal or should I just take the plunge and try to get the ex out of my mind and go out with this girl? Reponses would be nice! Thanx! Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted January 13, 2002 Share Posted January 13, 2002 Just stay away from this person altogether for now. She is not interested in being your friend, she seems interested in dating you with the hope of romance. There is no good reason to enter into something with her that she is not seeking. There is no good reason to be her buddy when she is wanting more and then breaking her heart. Pass the word to her through your friend that you don't feel ready to date right now but when you do, you'd definitely be interested if this admirer is still available. You are very wise in taking the time you need to thoroughly get over your ex before entering the dating world again. Link to post Share on other sites
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