Nomad Posted May 2, 2006 Posted May 2, 2006 call girl/escort, whatever term you want to use. I wanted some and was tired of waiting so I just went ahead and did it. Just thought I'd throw that out there. Now that I've done it once and got over my hesitance, I'll probably do it again.
MadDog Posted May 2, 2006 Posted May 2, 2006 Was she worth the money? I'm sure she was cheaper than dating if you purely wanted to bone and nothing else.
Author Nomad Posted May 2, 2006 Author Posted May 2, 2006 The escort girl was "worth the money" just for the experience of getting laid, which I'd never had (I'm in mid-twenties).
MadDog Posted May 2, 2006 Posted May 2, 2006 The escort girl was "worth the money" just for the experience of getting laid, which I'd never had (I'm in mid-twenties). Exchanging "my first time" stories with your first girlfriend will be interesting.
Author Nomad Posted May 2, 2006 Author Posted May 2, 2006 well, I should say that I actually have had A girlfriend, though we didn't sleep together (we did everything else). second, I'm concerned b/c that issue may be raised someday in a relationship when it comes time to discuss past sexual experiences. Telling someone I've been with call girls could be a major turn-off. I'll probably just keep that secret for myself. at the rate I'm going, I'll prob never BE in a relationship (else I wouldn't have broken down and finally paid for sex), so it may be a moot point anyway.
Yamaha Posted May 2, 2006 Posted May 2, 2006 How do you get a boner when you know she's only there because your paying her? I have always wondered this question. I just find it a major turn off if the gal really wasn't into me but many others obviously don't care or the worlds oldest profession wouldn't exist.
KnowHowLoveFeels Posted May 2, 2006 Posted May 2, 2006 Just out of curiousity... can you share with us how much she cost... and the details???
Author Nomad Posted May 2, 2006 Author Posted May 2, 2006 as to the question of how I got a boner...well it's a good-looking naked girl in my room, which is something I haven't had for quite a while. as to how much it costs, it was about two hundred (fee for "companionship") plus about another hundred "tip" (for the other stuff). as for the details of the encounter, I looked up a service from a local paper that runs ads for escorts and just called her. I asked the girl to describe herself over the phone and she came over in about an hour/hour and a half. she arrived, we made small talk, and she laid down the ground rules (no oral sex, no finger action, etc) and then she asked what I wanted and where I wanted to do it. We moved to my bedroom (I live alone in an apt) and negotiated the "tip" and then got down to business. afterwards, she stayed for a bit and then left.
MadDog Posted May 2, 2006 Posted May 2, 2006 as to how much it costs, it was about two hundred (fee for "companionship") plus about another hundred "tip" (for the other stuff). I think I'm way over that amount with the current girl I'm seeing and we haven't even kissed yet. I'd say you got a good deal.
Author Nomad Posted May 2, 2006 Author Posted May 2, 2006 I should have said that the "no oral sex" restriction meant I was forbidden from performing it on her. She did perform on me (all with protection, of course).
KnowHowLoveFeels Posted May 2, 2006 Posted May 2, 2006 Ok, don't laugh... what the heck, laugh. My husband of 10 years offered me 10 grand for boning me in the 'other hole' in a very sleezy way. (I said no.) But I also pretended to be extremely offended, as in, 'what? you think I'm a whore?'
MadDog Posted May 2, 2006 Posted May 2, 2006 I should have said that the "no oral sex" restriction meant I was forbidden from performing it on her. She did perform on me (all with protection, of course). Why the hell would anyone give her money just so you can please her? That'd be the stupidest deal of all time.
KnowHowLoveFeels Posted May 2, 2006 Posted May 2, 2006 Why the hell would anyone give her money just so you can please her? That'd be the stupidest deal of all time. MadDog, you don't think eating p**** is pleasurable (for you)??
vampress1 Posted May 3, 2006 Posted May 3, 2006 Nomad... I am struck with conflicting thoughts here! At first I was like "ewww, skummy!" Once you mentioned that you lost your V-card to this person, I thought "hmmm, not a bad way to go... you don't have to worry about your performance, cuz frankly, who cares what she thinks? and you get an experienced partner who can probably show you a few tricks" I have to agree with you about a future g/f not being to thrilled about learning this part of your past. I'm sure there are many women out there that won't mind... I hope you find one because I'm a HUGE proponent of honesty with your partner. Uhm, one final question... you mentioned that she stayed for a bit and then left. So, what exactly did ya'll talk about? Maybe you didn't talk... maybe you snuggled? (oooh, i feel like that would be weird). Did you ask her how it was for her? (I would want to know)
fishtaco Posted May 3, 2006 Posted May 3, 2006 How do you get a boner when you know she's only there because your paying her? I have always wondered this question. I just find it a major turn off if the gal really wasn't into me but many others obviously don't care or the worlds oldest profession wouldn't exist. I think like you Yamaha. That's why while I have been to strip clubs, they're not exactly my favorite destinations. But I look at that more as a disability, since that's one less way I can get a boner. Anyhow, Nomad, don't get discouraged about not being able to hook up with women. There are plenty good advice on this forum on what to do, you just have to put a genuine effort into it. Some people are born with the mojo. But if you don't have it, it takes a lot of work to emulate it. But it is possible. When you do get into a relationship and this comes up, you can always sell it like what you said earlier... you broke down and did it. You were in a mentally depressed time in your life, you felt hopeless. Which is kind of what you said anyway so it wouldn't be lying. And if she's not okay with it, go find another chick (or get another escort). I spent $200 a number of months back taking a girl out. I got nuthin. You did better than me. Can I borrow a Sucka sticker from anyone? I need to put it on my forehead.
Author Nomad Posted May 3, 2006 Author Posted May 3, 2006 Uhm, one final question... you mentioned that she stayed for a bit and then left. So, what exactly did ya'll talk about? Maybe you didn't talk... maybe you snuggled? (oooh, i feel like that would be weird). Did you ask her how it was for her? (I would want to know) We just BS'd basically. She told me about working as an escort and stuff like that, told some funny stories about customers she'd met and the weird stuff they wanted her to do.
tinktronik Posted May 3, 2006 Posted May 3, 2006 well, ongrats on the loss of your virginity. I don't see anything wrong with ordering it in , It seems like you can have anything delivered now. So was sex all you'd heard?
Author Nomad Posted May 3, 2006 Author Posted May 3, 2006 Yes, the sex was good. It was a bit awkward getting into position and all that (being my first time), but she was a pro.
SuperMonk Posted May 3, 2006 Posted May 3, 2006 Congrats on losing your virginity bro! I too lost mines at a later age, but I didn't have to pay, but had to put up with a lotta crap. here's a tip, NEVER EVER MARRY YOUR FIRST GIRLFRIEND unless you both are totally intellectually compatible, sexually compatble, etc.
Curmudgeon Posted May 3, 2006 Posted May 3, 2006 It certainly wouldn't be for me to go where so many men have gone before, and perhaps that day! BLECH!
magda Posted May 3, 2006 Posted May 3, 2006 I'm always shocked when someone I know admits to having slept with a prostitute and I can't really figure out exactly why. maybe because not a lot of people admit it. A guy I was seeing casually told me he and his girlfriend got a call girl and he had sex with her in front of his girlfriend. This shocked me for the rest of the night after he told me and I still haven't forgotten. That was kind of a big deal to me and he acted surprised that it was which made me even more sketchy about the whole thing. I wasn't mad per se, but it definitely changed the way I looked at him and I wasn't wild about it. I think, definitely don't volunteer the info out of the blue..
Butterflying Posted May 3, 2006 Posted May 3, 2006 After all the drama I've had in the past with XGF's, I totally wouldn't have any problems dating a man who admitted to having had sex with a "hired" escort. At least you don't have to worry about emotions and feelings being involved. Since you used protection, it's a clean slate. That call girl will never ruin your relationship by calling, or making demands the way most X's do. Consider yourself lucky, and fortunate.
visotech Posted May 3, 2006 Posted May 3, 2006 Why the hell would anyone give her money just so you can please her? That'd be the stupidest deal of all time. I'd hate to be a woman in bed with you. There is pleasure in both giving and recieving.
Vertex Posted May 3, 2006 Posted May 3, 2006 So everything you did included a condom, yes? I never understood the appeal of oral sex while wearing a condom though, admittedly. How did you go about finding her? (Not asking because I want to, I am just curious how people go about doing this)
burning 4 revenge Posted May 3, 2006 Posted May 3, 2006 MadDog, you don't think eating p**** is pleasurable (for you)?? I don't like it. It makes my tongue all tired and numb. I used a TS call girl before. I couldn't imagine dating one and I was curious. Plus the girl I was seeing wasn't into greek. It was fun (absolutely, no oral-I wouldn't suck a c**k either).
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