Art_Critic Posted March 22, 2006 Posted March 22, 2006 With experienced logical and practical mature people... .....
alphamale Posted March 22, 2006 Posted March 22, 2006 Don't mean to distract your thread topic, Pada, but if you are sizes like me (2, 4) it is terribly difficult to find things...besides I'm tall, too (5' 8 1/2) and that makes it even harder... great man....before it was just the fat chicks who could not find anything to wear. Now, even the skinny chicks can't find anything. Why don't y'all just run around naked.
whichwayisup Posted March 22, 2006 Posted March 22, 2006 great man....before it was just the fat chicks who could not find anything to wear. Now, even the skinny chicks can't find anything. Why don't y'all just run around naked. *takes off shirt* Happy now?
Author basscatcher Posted March 22, 2006 Author Posted March 22, 2006 Good! And I'm glad that she wasn't trying to PRY into something that isn't her business. She does seem immature and actually, I hate to say it, but thinks that she is so "important". To call a friend's boyfriend, that she barely knows, to brag about her new car is stupid. She has a high opinion of herself and like, honestly, like Charlie would care either way about her new purchase! LOL it's kinda funny... She just wanted some sort of reaction. Or...well, maybe I shouldn't say the Or...I'm sure you thought it too. Yes, I was hard on her and I beleive I hurt her feelings but she needs to grow up. Charlie don't give a damn about her getting a new car. If I got a new car he would be very happy for me but not her. I told so too.. I went biaytch on her. Your same thoughts ran through my head also about her. I have been keeping her in the dark about my relationship with Charlie because she would get jealous instead of sharing in my happiness and when something was a little negative she would blow it out of proportion and I didn't need that kind of reaction. I need people who can keep me stable not push me further over the edge. ____ As for clothes I have a very hard time finding clothes---I am 5 ft 4 1/2 inches, 120 lbs. I wear between a size 3-6 depending so they can fit my full butt ... I have a small waist so to find slants, pants, jeans is a headache. small waist full rear and long then average legs. It sucks.. And with shoes--what is with the skinny Wedge heels ths year. They are ugly. I want a heel not a wedge.
blind_otter Posted March 22, 2006 Posted March 22, 2006 ____ As for clothes I have a very hard time finding clothes---I am 5 ft 4 1/2 inches, 120 lbs. I wear between a size 3-6 depending so they can fit my full butt ... I have a small waist so to find slants, pants, jeans is a headache. small waist full rear and long then average legs. It sucks.. And with shoes--what is with the skinny Wedge heels ths year. They are ugly. I want a heel not a wedge. I have a hard time finding pants that fit. I always buy big and alter them myself. Or con my sister or mother into doing it. I have an 11 inch difference between my waist and hips. My big fat ass. Guys seem to like it, though.
Author basscatcher Posted March 22, 2006 Author Posted March 22, 2006 My big fat ass. Guys seem to like it, though. I've been told that my ass isnt big my hip bones are wide. Men like my ass also. I get grabbed all the time. Or they brush up against it to get a feel for fear if they grab they will get smacked. Charlie just slaps it all the time. Why can't he grab it. Damn I'd like to feel his hand holding my cheek.
blind_otter Posted March 22, 2006 Posted March 22, 2006 I've been told that my ass isnt big my hip bones are wide. Men like my ass also. I get grabbed all the time. Or they brush up against it to get a feel for fear if they grab they will get smacked. Charlie just slaps it all the time. Why can't he grab it. Damn I'd like to feel his hand holding my cheek. My Bf likes to give me butt massages. I'm always like, well it's not the area I hold much tension in...but ok.... When I was a waitress my poor ass was under constant attack. A few times when I was wearing a miniskirt drunk gusy would pull my skirt up and put their cigarettes out on my butt.
Author basscatcher Posted March 22, 2006 Author Posted March 22, 2006 drunk gusy would pull my skirt up and put their cigarettes out on my butt. NOW this is just wrong. I'd jack slap so fast they wouldn't know what hit them ad if they fell off their chair. I'll just say he's too drunk for any more service.
alphamale Posted March 22, 2006 Posted March 22, 2006 When I was a waitress my poor ass was under constant attack. A few times when I was wearing a miniskirt drunk gusy would pull my skirt up and put their cigarettes out on my butt. where were you working at? a low-class strip joint?
Mz. Pixie Posted March 22, 2006 Posted March 22, 2006 I'm glad you put her straight. I think she was fishing actually. I hate to say she's disloyal but women can be so underhanded sometimes- jealous of what a friend has and wanting it for themselves........you never know. I always trust men more than women for those reasons.
noclobber Posted March 22, 2006 Posted March 22, 2006 How would you feel if you reached our for someone's hand and they didn't hold yours back? This has happened to me. I thought the girl liked me and when I tried to hold her hands she flinched and said "You are very touchy, I don't like it". This was after spending around 7 hours together alone that day - talking, walking, dining out... I felt like being slapped on the face How would you feel if you loved someone and you didn't know if they loved you back? Usually I will try to find out how the other person feels about me. If your question is - "How would you feel if you loved someone and they didn't return your feelings" then my answer is this -> I know its not personal but I would feel like shyt. The feeling of not being wanted by somebody hurts... it hurts very deeply. *Would you wait to see if they could return your feelings? I learnt my lesson the tough way. I thought her feelings would change with time but I learnt that that is a huge mistake. When you ask out somebody and if they say anything other than "yes" then that's it. That's the final answer for this entire lifetime! No use waiting around. *How long do you think you should wait before moving on? It's tough but its best to move on ASAP. 'cos basically you want something more and the other just won't give it to you. So what's the use sticking around? They are not worth it. *How do you let go when they are there for you, spend lots of time with you, call you everyday, has given you gifts, you are in love with them, and they don't know how they feel about you? You are bringing tears to my eyes now . It's damn tough to let go but always remember the golden rule -> The right thing to do and the difficult thing to do are usually the same! *Would you want to be with that person? No! I would rather use my time and energy to find a person that will return my feelings. oh wow I guess I need to have such monologues with myself every now and then
whichwayisup Posted March 22, 2006 Posted March 22, 2006 Yes, I was hard on her and I beleive I hurt her feelings but she needs to grow up. Charlie don't give a damn about her getting a new car. If I got a new car he would be very happy for me but not her. I told so too.. I went biaytch on her. Your same thoughts ran through my head also about her. I have been keeping her in the dark about my relationship with Charlie because she would get jealous instead of sharing in my happiness and when something was a little negative she would blow it out of proportion and I didn't need that kind of reaction. I need people who can keep me stable not push me further over the edge. Actually, sorry to say this, but I thought she may be trying to open the door, to talk to him, get him to confide in her, be the go-between and eventually move in on him... She crossed the line and you put her in back in place.
Author basscatcher Posted March 22, 2006 Author Posted March 22, 2006 noclobber --I dialog all the time with myself like this... Its facing yourself and not running. WWIU -- I trust her but I don't. She is my XH xgf and that is how she and I became friends. Because of the hell he put her through and she reached out to me.. I have some trust issues with her and then I do trust her. It depends on the topic at hand on the trust. She is nieve in a lot of stuff and has made manymany bad choices in her life that have hurt her. She is making little steps in growing and growing up. I am hard on her at times but I do it with love and kindness. I had a gf that did this with me and I needed it or I would still be where I was 10 years ago.. She pushed me to mature and act my age. This is what I am doing for this gf.. When she starts to damage my life I will ditch her if I need too. Otherwise our friendship will continue to grow and move forward. She will be turning 31 April 4 and she acts like she is 22. She has been married 6 times and has 6 children and custody of only 2. She has lived a rough life with no guidance, morals or values instilled in her by family or friends. She has lived on the wrong side of the track and she is reaching out and wanting to change. I chewed her out because she crossed the line and she sulked because she knew she did... She is remorseful.
blind_otter Posted March 22, 2006 Posted March 22, 2006 where were you working at? a low-class strip joint? It's the South, baby. Southern boys do all sorts of things. Some good, some bad. ya'll don't know the half of it.
alphamale Posted March 23, 2006 Posted March 23, 2006 It's the South, baby. Southern boys do all sorts of things. Some good, some bad. Florida is not considered the "South"....most of the residents are from the north.
Touche Posted March 23, 2006 Posted March 23, 2006 Certain parts of Florida though really are more like the South. Florida is a weird state that way.
a4a Posted March 23, 2006 Posted March 23, 2006 Certain parts of Florida though really are more like the South. Florida is a weird state that way. Gator poachers and rocket scientists
blind_otter Posted March 23, 2006 Posted March 23, 2006 Florida is not considered the "South"....most of the residents are from the north. It's funny to see people making comments about where I live - have you ever been here? All the yankees I know are here for school, or over 65.
alphamale Posted March 23, 2006 Posted March 23, 2006 It's funny to see people making comments about where I live - have you ever been here? Yes, i've spent quite some time in FL....my parents used to have a condo in Venice which is just south of Sarasota. I used to go down there every Summer for like 10 yrs in a row and spend 3 wks each trip. Summer was nasty weather-wise but there were no tourists around
blind_otter Posted March 23, 2006 Posted March 23, 2006 Yes, live spent quite some time in FL....my parents used to have a condo in Venice which is just south of Sarasota. I used to go down there every Summer for like 10 yrs in a row and spend 3 wks each trip. Summer was nasty weather-wise but there were no tourists around South Florida is almost a different state. I doubt you've ever ventured into North or N. Central FL, which is like southern GA. Sarasota? I hate that place.
a4a Posted March 23, 2006 Posted March 23, 2006 It's funny to see people making comments about where I live - have you ever been here? All the yankees I know are here for school, or over 65. Yep lived there to have fun for 1.5 years. Met gator poachers and many rocket scientists......
alphamale Posted March 23, 2006 Posted March 23, 2006 I doubt you've ever ventured into North or N. Central FL, . no, yankees don't venture into them thar parts....too many hicks.
Art_Critic Posted March 23, 2006 Posted March 23, 2006 South Florida is almost a different state. I doubt you've ever ventured into North or N. Central FL, which is like southern GA. Sarasota? I hate that place. Miami is a country all it's own.. I'm familiar with Ft Lau. and Miami.. as well as Tampa/Clearwater.. My parents had a summer house in St Pete..So I would go there in the summers.. Nothing but old people
Author basscatcher Posted March 23, 2006 Author Posted March 23, 2006 I need a vacation Florida doesn't interest me in vacatioing and Charlie has a condo down there so that won't do me any good.. He is connected to Florida... He didn't call last night either and he also had his kids. Its spring break for school around here so I don't know if he has his kids now through the weekend or not. He mentioned going up to the cabin this weekend with the kids to ice fish so I don't know if he will follow through on that or not and when he will leave. His cell phone doesn't work up there so he cant call me unless he drives 15 miles to a payphone again. But, then again he has been indecisive for the past 2 weeks (changes his mind all the time) and he is for the first time taking some time to himself? Which feels like abandonment to me because he has called me everyday since the first week we met. Its unsettling to not see him also. We seen each other 3-6 days a week and now its like he fell off the planet.. I really need a hug. I miss him.. No ones arms will do but his. (he didn't hug me much anyway) It feels like a break-up.. This really sucks. This is uncomfortable.. I feel like I'm single again
alphamale Posted March 23, 2006 Posted March 23, 2006 I'm familiar with Ft Lau. and Miami.. as well as Tampa/Clearwater.. My parents had a summer house in St Pete..So I would go there in the summers.. Nothing but old people dude, Siesta Key beach in Sarasota....that's where its happening.
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