cal gal Posted February 20, 2006 Posted February 20, 2006 This is typical gibberish from someone who doesn't have a clue. Grow up sweetie and when you have 20+ years of a relationship under your garter belt then come back and tell me how it's done. Otherwise you're just not qualified...by the sounds of it. We're not the only couple at this stand-off and if you knew anything about anything...you'd know that. Hadenuff- I DO NOT get angry or upset hardly ever in life, however you don't know what you are referring to! I HAVE BEEN MARRIED FOR 20 YEARS! SO, maybe you need to grow up and get a clue! All I was saying before is that if you spent half the energy figuring out how to make hubby happy instead of griping, then he might want your sorry a$$ more often! BUT NO, you just want to complain like most women that are intent to take their husband down! WHY DON'T you figure out who you are speaking to before you point the finger? IGNORANCE is the same as stupidity! I really do feel so sorry for your husband! He needs a good BJ - and NOT from YOU!
Jeffrey Posted February 21, 2006 Posted February 21, 2006 This was quite out of line, if you can't be helpful why be a jerk about it? Sounds like two very selfish people put together and expecting them to get along, good luck - you will need it with that attitude! No wonder he doesn't want your selfish a$$.....
Presario Posted February 21, 2006 Posted February 21, 2006 Jeffrey, This was quite out of line, if you can't be helpful why be a jerk about it? Calgal and Hadenuff exchanges a few messages before the post you refer to. It's not just Calgal being this way, Hadenuff was biting too.
cal gal Posted February 21, 2006 Posted February 21, 2006 I agree with WWIU- Even when my xh and I had sex every day or even twice a day - he still loved to get off when he took a shower.... I was never feeling threatened or mad by this, it is just what men like to do. Accept it.... find a way to include yourself to make it more fun for him 1. you just watching 2. you going at yourself at the same time 3. asking him to aim at you to make it like a game (participation) 4. give him a lap dance to get him started and let him do the rest Oh Yah, It doesn't hurt to tell a man how amazing his goods are as you participate. If you ARE involved and can make it fun for him, then no guilt on his part, and satisfaction on your part that you participated and watched him have fun! For goodness sake the last thing you want him to feel is guilt for a very instinctual process. Make it fun - you will soon figure out a bunch of ways to "play" Jeffrey - This was my earlier post that was to be helpful. It was discounted. I just don't appreciate that someone would say certain things about how long they may or may not be in a relationship unless they know the facts. She was belittling me without any knowledge of my backround. Oh well...
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