Terrible date last night.

[E in N]

Last night I had one of the worst dates of my life.

She complained about her deceased husband over and over again.

She also stepped outside to have a smoke (I didn't know she smoked) and left me sitting at the table for about 15 minutes.

When she came back in, she got her phone out and started scrolling through stuff.

I asked the server to bring my check and hers as well.

I paid my tab, she paid hers and I told her this isn't going to work out.

I was relieved to get away from this person.

 

 

 

[smackie9]

1 hour ago, E in N said:

Last night I had one of the worst dates of my life.

She complained about her deceased husband over and over again.

She also stepped outside to have a smoke (I didn't know she smoked) and left me sitting at the table for about 15 minutes.

When she came back in, she got her phone out and started scrolling through stuff.

I asked the server to bring my check and hers as well.

I paid my tab, she paid hers and I told her this isn't going to work out.

I was relieved to get away from this person.

 

 

 

So sorry it was so awful. Obviously she's just stuck emotionally. Friends probably overly encouraged her to put herself out there when she is indeed not ready to go forward in her life. 

Hats off to you for being a perfect gentleman. I guess there needs to be some more aggressive pre-date screening. Oh well onward and upward. 

[Sony12]

Did you two meet on an app? If so how much communicating did you two do beforehand? Generally it's a good idea to talk just a little bit before the date to weed out obvious incompatibilities like you two were.

It honestly seems like she felt the same way you did about the date.

[E in N]

1 hour ago, Sony12 said:

Did you two meet on an app? If so how much communicating did you two do beforehand? Generally it's a good idea to talk just a little bit before the date to weed out obvious incompatibilities like you two were.

It honestly seems like she felt the same way you did about the date.

We met on Facebook.

We did some texting back and forth as well. Not enough though.