My boyfriend broke up with me because his doctor said his brain couldn't handle the stress anymore.

[nochka]

so, we were dating for one year, and everything was perfect, but last two-three weeks he started to come home late, like he was going to study at 9am and coming home at +-1am because he was working after classes. He told me every time he comes home and i’m sitting here sad, waiting for him- he is filling super guilty and sad because of not having enough time to spend with me. He stopped eating, stopped drinking, he has so much things to do, especially making money. He lost 10 kilograms, started coughing blood, fainting. So he went to hospital. Doctor told him - blood results is extremely bad, his brain can’t work properly so he has to choose one thing to worry about, he chose study and work. We broke up the same day, first he was so cold, i didn’t know people can change like this overnight. Basically he didn’t have any energy for relationships, I made him only more stressed, he even blocked everyone except me and his father. But that night he was crying and telling me he doesn’t want to break up. First he also said we will be together again 100% after his recovery. But then he changed it on “maybe one day”, adding to not have false hopes and start leaving my life alone. We agreed i’ll check on his health sometimes, but i don’t know what should i do except waiting. I still don’t have enough information to do a conclusion, but today he is helping me with moving out from our apartment, so maybe i’ll update this post later. Let me know your opinions and what’s the chance of us to be a couple again.

[ExpatInItaly]

1 hour ago, nochka said:

today he is helping me with moving out from our apartment

How is this even physically possible when he has had such serious health problems and "brain" stress? 

1 hour ago, nochka said:

what’s the chance of us to be a couple again

Please don't wait for him. I think he's been wanting to break up but didn't have the heart to come out and tell you, so he chose this as his exit instead. I'm sorry. 

[Acacia98]

Please don't waste your time waiting. What kind of relationship could you possibly have with someone who'll have to dump you every time he's overwhelmed with stress? Life generally is stressful, you know? Wish him well, cut off contact, and start to move on.