Should I just move on

[niceman]

I am 58 she 53...was dating this lady 5 months..during the dating, little affection from her, maybe kissed a couple of times, basically for her she was kind of interviewing me to see if she will take it further,fast forward, two weeks ago she broke the dating, saying because of my mood swings and later in the relationship I hold her I had a son, so she did not like that of course, even though I have my own house, for the last month been renting her basement, so after breakup, she said ok to live there as well she is happy to be friends and do things together, which we do daily like, bike rides and other sports plus we have dinner together which I bring or prepare, obviously I would like to reconcile..at present I'm going to counselling for mood swings, reason, I'm sticking around, is maybe she sees changes from my counselling, I'm I just wasting my time hoping for reconciliation...as well in two weeks we have a scheduled vacation down south which she is going with me obviously two beds...thinking after vacation, and from vacation and see how things go, just tell her, I enjoyed hanging out, but I just can't be friends, I still have romantic feelings for you and if your open for us dating, that would be great, if not, I wish you the best

[Alpacalia]

I don't know if I would go on the vacation with her, you've spent five months dating her. You've developed feelings, you've continued spending time together after the breakup, you share meals and activities, and now there's a vacation coming up. Emotionally, you're still invested, even though I suspect she's moved on.

[flitzanu]

also that seems weird if you have your own house but you are renting her basement just so you can stay in her house