She is cheating or about too......

[randystorrs]

Just alittle background about me and my wife. We both work and really never get to see each other that much over the last few years. I'm gone most of the day for my job and she works at a local store doing a swing shift at night I'm in bed by the time she gets home.

I've notice that my wife started to get friendly with a guy online through Facebook, which at first was not a huge deal because she friends alot of people that she knows their. But the last month, I can see that her online comments were getting more and more "friendly". After I did some digging, I found out the guy was a traveling worker that had been at the store she works at doing some upgrades to the store. I begin to look on our phone records that she also had been sends lots of text messages back and forth to a number that was out of state. Then on day she left a comment on one of his online pages and he told her that it would be better if she would get a seperate texting app. to txt from now on. She posted ok. I never did get to see any of her normal texts that she was sending out because I have looked on her phone in her normal texting app nothing but normal text's to me a family.

As for separate type of texting app that he was talking about I haven't found it. But I never really have a lot of time to look on her phone. But lately her mood has change some when I'am home with her she's been on her phone alot texting I think, and she seem keeping away from me.  Every night she is home around the same time. But one night she didn't come home with she normally does. She was 4 hours late, which was a first. I asked her about it and she just said that she was helping a coworker out after work mover her stuff from one apt. to another. That was 2 days ago.

Then after that she said the the coworker wanted to thank her  for helping her move by taking her on a small girls trip. I let her go today for this "girls trip". But from some reason I've got this feeling this is not some "girls trip" but a trip with this guy that she has been talking to. She left in her own car. I've been texting and calling her but she doesn't answer her phone. I my mind since it's into the night now, she is somewhere with this guy and at this moment she is "busy" with him. 

She's told me she wouldn't be back till this Friday. What do you guys think?

 

[Acacia98]

If you're right and she's cheating, what do you want to do about it?

[Sony12]

She very well might be. It's up to you though to either improve or end your marriage. You freely admitted that you two really don't see each other much anymore and this has been going on for several years now. It would be completely normal for someone's eyes to eventually begin to wonder in that type of situation. She very well may consider the marriage to practically already be over. So you need to either improve it or end it.