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My wife and I have been separated for 11 months her choice.  I have hopes of getting her back but she is hot and cold. We have alot of contact and do things often . Time to time she talks about our future together but never moves forward.   She is struggling living apart and I contribute.  I feel lost without her . I have taken responsibility for my problems and I have been working daily on myself both mentally and physically.  It's approaching the one year mark and the holidays and I don't want to go through them without her.  We did everything together we have great jobs a nice home but she doesn't communicate things that bother her.  I would never intentionally do anything to upset her she deals with depression daily and has a son 34 that has alot of problems and lived with us.  I'm willing to do the work to save our marriage.   I'm 54 she's 56 and we been together 17 great years .

 

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first step is stop contributing to her financial needs.

she chose to leave you, why should she come back if she left you and you still give her money?

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