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Matched last week. She reached out first bantered a good bit. Started messaging every 12 hours after a day and a half. She asked for my availability. I told her about my car issues she said I can make the 45 minute drive but let me get done with classes in 3 weeks.

She would tell me I'm not ignoring you I'm just very busy with work as a nurse and school. Showed her my artwork. She wanted me to draw her something. I said only GFs get that. She said I already know what I want you to draw l'll wait patiently for the right time also saying the goal is to be my girlfriend.

She asked to FaceTime tomorrow. I said yes or sometime this week. Tomorrow hits I ask if we could FaceTime this morning. She was typing right away and as I went to send her a regular selfie of me just being friendly (not trying to ask for a pic) she stopped typing.

No reply came about. I decided to reach out almost 2 days later asking where things stand. Within 1 second of hitting send she starts typing 4 paragraphs of I'm sorry, overwhelmed mentally, telling me l'm not necessarily saying I want to not keep getting to know each other but I'm just overwhelmed and can't navigate things right now.

I worded things a bit differently stating this is a bit confusing. She said truthfully I'm not letting you down easy I genuinely want to get to know you l'm sorry for not reciprocating I love how thorough and genuine you are. Then asks are you free next Tuesday or Wednesday asking to go to her favorite restaurant. 

Then proceeds to send me a lot of messages showing me a video of the place, with other banter. When I told her she has a great smile she said aw thank you I find you really attractive as well. Then said I'm excited to drive down because I know what's waiting for me is you... I mean the food lol

I never had a situation unfold like this before. It's either ghosted not interested at all or it's easy going No confusion, busy or a period of silence. What to make of this? 

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Women who want to be your girlfriend will be consistent. They will show their interest, communicate consistently, and make time to see you. Those are the signs that you need to watch for - consistency and follow-through. If you don’t have these things, it’s not going to work.

Edited by BaileyB

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