Anonymous Posted Thursday at 01:59 PM Posted Thursday at 01:59 PM We are both men, I am in my late 50s and hes 19. We met at a pub through a friend and got along ,and it eventually ended in sex. It was my idea to have sex and I feel weird now because he seemed to catch feelings and told me he wants a relationship. I immediately panicked and cut it off, and told him it can't work out. He was fine with it and we stopped seeing each now. Its been 2 weeks and I haven't seen him. This rarely happens to me when the younger person catches feelings, especially a guy (I am bi) although I don't usually go for someone this young. I just feel strange. I guess I started to worry our relationship would get out. I always keep it physical only and discreet.
ExpatInItaly Posted Thursday at 03:02 PM Posted Thursday at 03:02 PM 55 minutes ago, Anonymous said: I guess I started to worry our relationship would get out. Well, that's always a risk. Just because you are discreet does not mean the other person is (or will remain so) As a general rule, I always avoided getting involved in situations I needed to be worried about getting out. That was my cue to stay away and not proceed. And really, it's unlikely a 19-year-old would have stuck around very long anyway. He will be on to the next interest shortly, as usually happens with teens.
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