Posted on behalf of a friend

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Posted on behalf of a friend. Come on people give me your best. I know what I think!

I’ve met a man my sister knows really well and she says he’s lovely. We really like each other, but we’ve been meeting secretly because he’s only just ended an 11-year relationship less than three weeks ago. He said she took it really badly.
He says he’d been deeply unhappy for years and dreaded going home, so emotionally the relationship was over long before he actually ended it.
The problem is that his ex is still living in his house with their family, so nobody can know about us yet and we have to meet away from home. We’ve spent five amazing nights together already and we have three nights in another lovely hotel tomorrow.
His family don’t know about me either and he can’t introduce me because it would look terrible so soon after the breakup.
Also, his Facebook cover photo is still a really lovely couple photograph of him and his ex. He hasn’t changed it.
He says I shouldn’t worry, but I really like him and I’m frightened I might just be a rebound or a fling. What would you think?
 

Edited Wednesday at 09:52 PM by a LoveShack.org Moderator

[flitzanu]

if the man is still living with his wife and family, then he is still with them.

[ExpatInItaly]

No, no, no.

Stay away from this man. He is clearly not available to have a relationship with anyone else.

[Sanch62]

There is clearly something wrong and manipulative about anyone who would ask you to become a secret.

Don't do it. Step away from this man--he's a mess.