What does early interest look like?

[Anonymous]

Say point A is first meeting. Say point B is the first date, texting, etc.

 

When you reach point B, interest is obvious, you text, send jokes, maybe give small gifts or favors right?

 

But I never see any stuff talking about the stuff at the beginning

 

Online people just say "yeah. I saw him and was into him. We end on a date it was magical. We're now married with 3 kids".

 

Or like. Yeah if a girl is sending nudes or dirty texts, that speaks for itself right? But that isn't gonna happen right when you meet someone (it could but that isn't the norm)

 

What does chemistry look like BEFORE that first date or texting exchange. What does the soil look like before that little green leaf pops through.

 

You never hear about what the flirting looks, what the chemistry or connection looks like when the dynamic is brand new..week 1, week 2. What does it look like before you really hit the gas. How does it go from "hi stranger" to "let's go out"

[basil67]

We were attracted, had sex all night then went on a first date.

[E in N]

On 8/9/2026 at 11:04 AM, Anonymous said:

Or like. Yeah if a girl is sending nudes or dirty texts, that speaks for itself right? But that isn't gonna happen right when you meet someone (it could but that isn't the norm)

 

 

 

It's happened to me many times over the years right after meeting someone. 

I delete them and move on.