Natalie Lane Posted August 1 Posted August 1 I’ve been in a relationship for 9 years, after 2 years we broke up as he had an affair but we’ve been seeing each other since, he lets me down, everything is on his terms, I know I need to end this relationship but I love him, he lets me down last night and I sent a message to tell him to stay away but I know he won’t and I keep falling back into it, I am so drained thank you
basil67 Posted August 2 Posted August 2 Have you ever allowed yourself to question whether or not you actually do love him?
ExpatInItaly Posted August 2 Posted August 2 11 hours ago, Natalie Lane said: I know I need to end this relationship but I love him Are you confusing attachment and familiarity (or fear of being alone) with love?
Author Natalie Lane Posted August 2 Author Posted August 2 I am scared not to have him in my life but not like this, he is so controlling, I have written a journal to myself and when I feel sad, I read it just to help me keep my distance
ExpatInItaly Posted August 2 Posted August 2 Have you considered enlisting the help of a good counsellor?
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