I crave a relationship but I can't find a reason to have one.

[Anonymous]

I've been in a relationship for more than 10 years, we have kids. We divorced 3 years ago and since then I suffered depression and anxiety. 

After the break up I've dated a couple of girls. With one of them things were good, she was a perfect match...but I couldn't open my heart completely and I had to leave. 

Since my divorce I feel like I don't have a purpose anymore and any relationship seems pointless. Like... Kids, marriage... Done that, won't do it again. I know...relationships are not about marriage and kids, but I feel like I don't have anything else to offer now. 

Relationship scares me, but at the same time I crave one. I'm stuck in a loop, and I don't know what to do. 

I hate my life, my job, my place. And I hate myself. 

[Sony12]

Everyone has their own timeline for when they are able to accept another after a death, divorce, etc.....

Have you tried counseling or therapy to help you try to come to terms with your feelings so you can move on?

[Anonymous]

I'm seeing a therapist, yes... 

[Anonymous]

28 minutes ago, Sony12 said:

Everyone has their own timeline for when they are able to accept another after a death, divorce, etc.....

Have you tried counseling or therapy to help you try to come to terms with your feelings so you can move on?

Yes, I'm seeing a therapist...