Crushing on a woman at work.

[Salem89]

I'm a 36m and just returned to work this past spring from being on a furlough. I met this woman (not sure of her age) a couple of weeks after returning. We hit if off well and would talk briefly a couple days a week but then she left for a few weeks to perform other job duties. She came back to her regular job duties in June.

During this time I would stop by her desk when leaving work to talk to her, about 1-2 times a week. The conversations we had were great - she would smile, laugh, ask me personal questions back, and was overall engaged. This went on for about a month. During the last conversation we had this week she seemed distant and not enthusiastic about talking to me but she did talk. I asked her how her July 4th was, but she didn't ask me back - she didn't ask me anything, really. I'm not sure if something has changed and if she's lost interest or maybe I am making a big deal out of nothing.

[basil67]

What's your interest in your coworker?   Friendly or romantic?