Partner Questioning Relationship

[Anonymous]

I'm in a relationship with someone I love very deeply, but they're questioning their sexual orientation and aren't sure what that means for our future. They keep telling me they care about me, and don't want to lose me, but they're also honest that they don't fully understand their own feelings yet. They've never lied to me or led me on intentionally, they're just genuinely confused. The uncertainty has become incredibly painful because I don't know whether I'm building a future with someone who's choosing me or someone who's afraid of hurting me. I don't want to pressure them into making a decision before they're ready, and I don't want them to stay with me out of guilt. At the same time, living with so much uncertainty is taking a huge toll on my mental health. I love them enough to want them to be happy, even if that eventually isn't with me, but I don't know whether I should keep holding on with them while they figure themselves out or start protecting my own heart.

[ExpatInItaly]

Before commenting further, could I ask how old the two of you are, and how long you have been together? 

When did your partner approach you with this? 

[Sanch62]

Speaking only for myself, I’d step out of the way. I’d take losing me off the table as any kind barrier to sorting out something as crucial as one’s own sexuality.