Hello, I (27M) have been with my girlfriend (27F) for 11 years.

[Anonymous]

We started dating when we were 16 years old. Recently we had been having issues. She had started to delete her text messages with one of her guy friends. I can feel her slowly starting to fall out of love with me, and I feel like when this relationship ends, it's going to be very tough coping. I just need help getting through it. After all our time we had spent together, I had pictured her as the person I would marry, and for it to end like this has been incredibly painful. For those who experienced this, what helped you manage the pain? Honestly I just need someone to talk to I don't have much family to talk to about this.

[Sanch62]

I would start by talking with GF about this. There’s nothing more lonely than being in a relationship where you’re afraid to speak with your partner. Telling her how you feel doesn’t need to be accusatory. You have a right to know where you stand with her.