Broken up, but still communicating

[chrissychris01]

Hi everyone, I had a breakup last October. We were together for nearly 4 years and engaged to get married. The relationship ended after I discovered he was communicating with an ex and the dialogue was sexual. I was willing to forgive him, even though I was very upset, but then he decided to end things. So in December, he began video calling me nearly everyday. We dont ever discuss the relationship we have or our feelings for each other. I'm just wondering what are his intentions of calling me? 

[ExpatInItaly]

49 minutes ago, chrissychris01 said:

I'm just wondering what are his intentions of calling me? 

The ex probably stopped talking to him so he figures you might be a good fallback option. 

 

[Alpacalia]

Honestly, stop trying to decode his intentions because it doesn't really matter. He cheated emotionally, you were willing to forgive him anyway, and then he chose to leave. He left because he wanted to. Now he's calling you every day but won't talk about any of it, which means he gets the comfort of your company without any accountability or commitment. That's a pretty good deal for him. You're the one left guessing. The calls probably feel like hope but they're more likely just him keeping you available while he figures out what he wants.

[basil67]

Ask him!  Only he knows the answer.    

[Sanch62]

He likes keeping his exes around to play with.