Will she come back ?

[Brokenheartedman12]

I’m really struggling right now. My finance of 3 years ended it with me a few days ago. We’ve been no contact since. When we broke up it was on good terms, we kissed and hugged and the love was still there. What hurts is that I know with all my heart I was good to her, her family and I would do anything for her. She said in a week she may contact me to exchange items ( she still has the ring). Part of me wants her back the other is so confused, we had our disagreements but I never once belittled her I Always tried to uplift her and make sure she had the best possible outcome. She took it at times as hurt. On top of all that she’s been stressed with a job, her health and her mom and I feel totally lost. Like my world is upside down. I don’t feel like I got total closure and I feel as she left the door somewhat open but I’m at a lost on what I do. I’ve been speaking to people and trying to become better and heal but I also feel I lost my best friend.  

[introverted1]

I'm sorry you're hurting.

Did your fiancee say why she ended things?  

[Alpacalia]

That must be incredibly painful, were there any arguments or maybe since she's been dealing with her job, her health, and her mom, those are enormous pressures. Sometimes people make decisions from a place of being overwhelmed, not from a place of certainty. That doesn't mean she'll come back, but it does mean the ending may say more about where she is than about what you two had.

[Brokenheartedman12]

5 minutes ago, Alpacalia said:

That must be incredibly painful, were there any arguments or maybe since she's been dealing with her job, her health, and her mom, those are enormous pressures. Sometimes people make decisions from a place of being overwhelmed, not from a place of certainty. That doesn't mean she'll come back, but it does mean the ending may say more about where she is than about what you two had.

It hurts so much, I feel I was given up on. I know not everyday I gave it 100% but I tried 99% of the time. I felt her grow cold. I tried harder. I was loyal and madly in love and feel my world turned upside down. I hope one day she sees that

[Brokenheartedman12]

6 hours ago, introverted1 said:

I'm sorry you're hurting.

Did your fiancee say why she ended things?  

She claimed she needed to work on herself. Although I saw the levels of stress from her job it hurts she didn’t want me by her side through it. I feel very given up on 

[introverted1]

9 hours ago, Brokenheartedman12 said:

She claimed she needed to work on herself. Although I saw the levels of stress from her job it hurts she didn’t want me by her side through it. I feel very given up on 

How old are you both?

In general, when a partner pulls away like this, it suggests there is something deeper going on.  Has she shown signs of being less than committed prior to this?