Esp1138 Posted June 13 Posted June 13 Today I am half a century old! This is an update to my post from a decade ago. Very little has changed for me. I have my jobs, I have graduated from more schools, and I have tried to improve myself. I tried counseling with a licensed therapist in hopes of figuring out why women don’t like me and why I can never get better jobs. I even tried a self-proclaimed witch to cast a spell for me. Nothing worked. I went on a few dates with escorts and I had a wonderful time. My therapist told me that is not a good way to find a woman. But what does she know? She couldn’t solve any of my problems. I cannot complain. I have the most toys which is what I spend my money on and my sex life has been incredible.
ExpatInItaly Posted June 13 Posted June 13 1 hour ago, Esp1138 said: went on a few dates with escorts and I had a wonderful time. My therapist told me that is not a good way to find a woman. But what does she know? Well, assuming you wanted to find a partner, did any of those women wind up dating you? If not, your therapsit was right.
Author Esp1138 Posted June 16 Author Posted June 16 I went on two dates with escorts. I fell in love with one of them and I told her I was serious about having a family with her. At first it seemed that she liked the idea though later she told me she did not love me.
Gebidozo Posted June 17 Posted June 17 On 6/14/2026 at 12:14 AM, Esp1138 said: I went on a few dates with escorts and I had a wonderful time. My therapist told me that is not a good way to find a woman. But what does she know? She couldn’t solve any of my problems. If by “find a woman” you mean “find someone to have sex with”, I suppose paying escorts is fine. But if you mean “find someone to have a relationship with”, then of course your therapist was right. 6 hours ago, Esp1138 said: I went on two dates with escorts. I fell in love with one of them and I told her I was serious about having a family with her. At first it seemed that she liked the idea though later she told me she did not love me. You’re lucky you didn’t get scammed out of all your possessions. If you claim to have fallen in love with an escort after a couple of dates and seriously suggested to have a family with her, you need to stop dating or seeing escorts for a while so that your therapy sessions will actually mean anything. I personally don’t think that it’s generally immoral to pay escorts, and if you like the sex and it somehow doesn’t make you feel more depressed, sure, why not. But it looks like you’re desperate and out of touch with reality. This is not a joke, I think you’re harming yourself. You need to stop dating and focus on your therapy so that such a thing won’t happen again.
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