Staying or run far away ?

[luckyornot]

I've been in a relationship for almost 7 years now, 2 kids later and it's been rocky from the beginning, due to both of our faults. It's not one sided at all. I think we rushed into the relationship. Over the 7 years, there's been rarely any intimacy and lately there's absolutely none at all. No Hugging, kissing, like not even the bare minimum. It's making me very resentful, but I'm staying because of the kids. The relationship is very vanilla and boring, we talked so many times about it and literally nothing changes and we've had the same talks a million times. I dont think it's normal, even with having kids, that you can't have a good relationship. Not sure what to do anymore, is staying for the kids right? Or should I run far away? I mean who is just okay with existing around someone. It's strange. 

[introverted1]

Have you explored couples counseling?  A good counselor can help you break through unproductive conversations.