Anonymous Posted May 15 Posted May 15 I have been marred for 11 years now. Over a year ago I met another man and we been mostly texting and my husband just recently saw our text messages and wanted us to stop communicating. I haven't spoke to the guy for a few days and we recently broke contact. Things have been rough for awhile between my husband and I and I genuinely care about my husband and our family. I'm struggling to let go of this connection and need some advice how to let go.
ExpatInItaly Posted May 15 Posted May 15 1 hour ago, Anonymous said: I'm struggling to let go of this connection and need some advice how to let go What is it you feel is lacking in your marriage that you have turned outside of it like this? Identifying that can go a long way in addressing it and finding your way back to your marriage - or realizing that it's beyond repair. The other guy you are messaging is a symptom of bigger problems.
BaileyB Posted May 16 Posted May 16 I was going to say the same thing - it’s not really about the other man. He is a symptom of a bigger problem - perhaps a bandaid, for whatever is missing in your marriage and in your life. If you have the ability to talk with a counsellor, it may help because that person could likely help you to discover what it is that has lead you to this place… Of course, you are also welcome to keep posting here.
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