InkyHeart Posted 5 hours ago Posted 5 hours ago I really need some advice about a situation at work , there is this woman that got hired a couple of months ago she is attractive , we followed eachother on instagram , she has some bikini photos and from the gym and we started talking about her favorite travel locations and the gym because gym is my main hobby , we talked about favorite exercises and nutrition Anyway when i looked a little closer at her instagram account i saw photos with her and some guy ( i didnt notice at first because she has alot of pictures 150+ ) , it turns out that its her fiance , i backed off like any normal person would but she started getting closer Constantly pressing her chest to my arm when we want to show eachother something on the phone or looking at a file , alot of times sitting close to me even though there is plenty of space , for example to day there were like 10 empty seats in the conference room but she sat right next to me i was sitting on the chair and she wanted to show me some kind of phone accessory , with one hand she held her phone and the other one she put it on my thigh We went to the gym together and she got a little cramp on her calf /ankle from the workout and i offered to massage her and she didnt mind Maybe its all in my head but i think that she is flirting , she could also be just friendly because she is kinda close to other guys too , playfighting with them , joking around What do you think ? Quote
Sony12 Posted 3 hours ago Posted 3 hours ago She probably enjoys getting attention from men. Doesn't mean she wants to date them or get involved with them in anyway but enjoys getting looked at by them and what not. I am sure if you asked her out or put some moves on her she wouldn't be open to it at all but looks and a little flirting is ok. Quote
Author InkyHeart Posted 2 hours ago Author Posted 2 hours ago 12 minutes ago, Sony12 said: She probably enjoys getting attention from men. Doesn't mean she wants to date them or get involved with them in anyway but enjoys getting looked at by them and what not. I am sure if you asked her out or put some moves on her she wouldn't be open to it at all but looks and a little flirting is ok. i was really thinking of asking her out because i kinda gotten tired of just wondering what does she want , at least that way i would get a clear answer but i dont want to make a fool of myself either Quote
Sony12 Posted 25 minutes ago Posted 25 minutes ago 2 hours ago, InkyHeart said: i was really thinking of asking her out because i kinda gotten tired of just wondering what does she want , at least that way i would get a clear answer but i dont want to make a fool of myself either I highly doubt she would respond very positively to you asking her out (especially if she makes it pretty clear on her social media platforms that she is involved with someone). A lot of young women just enjoy getting attention from men. If she is posting a lot of pics online of her in a bikini it's pretty obvious she wants people to check her out. Quote
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