He walked out 3 minutes into the date

[Anonymous]

So I ended up going out with  this guy. This man has been begging me for a date so I decided to go. I canceled on him yesterday cause he was too last minute, when it came to the details. So i ended up going out with him tonight, I was about 15 min late which I apologized for. He comes down and walks me up, he’s constantly staring at me awkwardly/nervously? 

We get to the restaurant and he instantly goes to the bathroom, little weird but cool. Then he walks out the bathroom looks at me then walks back in to the bathroom ? Then two minutes go by and I feel someone tap me on the back and it’s him and he said “I’m still here just taking a call real quick”. At that point I should have walked out I stayed maybe two minutes longer. 

Then I get a text saying 

Sorry my cousin calling me with sum important 
I have to go get him right now I’m sorry, his bm just kicked him out

Y’all this man left !!!! Didn’t come back in didn’t tell me face to face. He sent me a text and was outta there. 

I’m a beautiful woman, I know everyone isn’t going to be attracted to me. Yet I look just like my pictures, so I’m beating my self up thinking maybe he just didn’t think I was cute. 

Yet I’ve never seen anyone act like this it’s weird I’m appalled and in shock…
He’s blocked 
Any advice?

[ExpatInItaly]

1 hour ago, Anonymous said:

This man has been begging me for a date so I decided to go.

I suppose you met him online, is that right? If so, can you describe what you mean by begging you for a date? I would have been put off if a strange man I'd never met were doing so, but perhaps you can elaborate on this. 

1 hour ago, Anonymous said:

Yet I’ve never seen anyone act like this it’s weird I’m appalled and in shock…

It is definitely strange, yes. I think he was rude and didn't handle this well at all. I am glad you have blocked him. 

[Sony12]

It is strange however the whole thing was set up to be awkward from the very beginning when there were cancellations right from the get go. He likely was extremely on the fence about the situation because of that and unless you turned out to be exactly what he pictured you to be he was probably going to lose interest very quickly.

In the future if you feel the need to cancel the first date without a legitimate personal life reason it's better to just call the whole thing off and wish each other best.