Not sure how to go forward with dating. She got pregnant and it didn’t work out.

[Carlston]

6 hours ago, introverted1 said:

Most banks in the US will require anyone on the mortgage to be on the deed.  

You are very confused.

Edited April 23 by Carlston

[Lamron300]

19 hours ago, basil67 said:

You seem to have a very different take on this thread than the rest of us do.   The whole thing was about us giving you advice and you ignoring all of it

The advice was to leave her, which I tried ti avoid doing as I didn’t think the issues were as bad as they were. 

[basil67]

On 4/24/2026 at 5:44 AM, Lamron300 said:

The advice was to leave her, which I tried ti avoid doing as I didn’t think the issues were as bad as they were. 

My question is why did you keep coming back if you thought we were wrong?   There's a common theme between continuing to get advice from those who you disagree with and staying with someone who you're incompatible with.   It seems you don't know when to quit

Edited April 24 by basil67

[Acacia98]

On 4/23/2026 at 10:44 PM, Lamron300 said:

The advice was to leave her, which I tried ti avoid doing as I didn’t think the issues were as bad as they were. 

You say you keep making the same mistake and you want to change that. But when you're in a situation where you're doing things the usual way and practically everyone advises you to do them differently, you stubbornly insist on doing things the same way.

You know what, OP? When you really want to, you will follow folks advice and do things differently. For the present, you need to admit that part of the reason why you are where you are is because you consistently make the choice to be there. You make the choices you do because deep down inside, there's a part of you that wants to. You really need to own that.

Edited April 25 by Acacia98