I had a falling out with the man I’m dating, should I try to fix things

[Carlston]

21 minutes ago, Imogen_77 said:

How disrespectful on his part.

You spelled controlling wrong.

[Sony12]

22 minutes ago, Carlston said:

You spelled controlling wrong.

As I said in an earlier post it's almost like both of them try to accelerate the dating process. There technically wouldn't be anything wrong with sharing the info/opinions or asking the questions that they did if they had been seriously dating for quite awhile. It's the fact that they were doing this after only a few weeks of dating that makes it extremely questionable on both sides.

[ExpatInItaly]

It's better that you're apart now, OP. 

Neither of you seems to have a handle on healthy dating, and as such, don't really have the skills to navigate issues like this one. There are boundary issues on both sides and a lack of discretion overall. 

This was not a good match. Better to close the door, reflect, and see what you can learn from this experience moving forward. 

[IrishDU]

Ok first up, he's a guy, and a young guy at that.  If you ask a guy if he would give up an inch in height for an inch in length, even somebody who is 5ft tall, will say YES!
Guys that age still have two brains, and do most of their thinking with the lower one.
Feeling inadequate in that department, much less having an actual problem, is debilitating.

Secondly, if lack of penile performance is such a big issue, then you're doing sex wrong.  I'm assuming he does have hands and a mouth?

I do think that trying to get too much into his medical business, so early on, is a bit much.  Especially given how much of the male ego is tied up in this.  You're not wrong, he sould be speaking to local medical experts, rather than self-diagnosing and heading to Mexico or Thailand.  But it IS his ___k.  Maybe wait and see how it turns out?

As for "should you try to fix things?"  I say yes, only because you shouldn't have broken up over this issue alone.